[0:00]Hey there. Uh, you're watching this video because perhaps you've seen the recent allegations against me. against me that I uh, strangled my ex-girlfriend. Um, that is not true and this video contains the full truth. Uh, I think that there's nothing more important than having the complete truth out there. I have never strangled anyone in my entire life. Uh, that's not what I do. Uh, I'm not physically aggressive in any way at all. Most people would describe me as super gentle. The truth is, Evelyn was abusive to me for pretty much in the entirety of our relationship. And I'm not the only one. I've spoken to multiple of her former partners and they all had basically the exact exact same experience as me. Um, throughout my relationship with Evelyn, it started with control. Uh, you know, she had concerns that, you know, she's going to be abandoned for another girl. Uh, I had lots of female friends. Uh and it started with if you, you know, if you see this girl, I'm going to break up with you, or you have to pick me or them. And over time, I just basically wasn't allowed to see my friends, and I got more contained and cornered and isolated. Um, when I, you know, after these kind of like psychological threats stopped working of her threatening me, uh, she resorted to being physical. Uh, hitting, pulling, scratching, all the things, uh, digging her nails into me. And her being physical, uh, was an open secret among her sisters, and it was an open secret among my friends, like, you know, we spoke about it extensively. With her sisters in particular, early on the relationship, they said, "Have you ever seen Evelyn go crazy?" I said, "I have." And they said, "No, no, no, like really crazy." And I was like, "I know what you're talking about." Um, we were all in Asia together last year by a pool, me, Evelyn and her sisters. And uh, my body was covered in scratches. And her sisters saw it, and they knew exactly where the scratches were from, and they went to Evelyn and told her off, and they said, "This is not okay." Um, we had a couples therapist who was fully aware that Evelyn was physically abusive to me multiple times. Uh, my friends were of this, there's a lot of documentation of this. There's a medical report. Um, I, yeah, this is the same experience that her other partners have had. And they also have it fully documented. They have letters of her admitting to it. They have photos of their injuries. It's all there. Um, it's not going anywhere, uh for now except to court. And, you know, the other thing about Evelyn, she's not to be trusted. Uh, you know, I had lots of issues trusting her. She would hit me and or, you know, be physical with me. And when she said, uh, you know, she would say, "This isn't going to happen again." And then 30, 45 days later, it inevitably happens again. And your trust resets, and then it rebuilds, and it resets, and rebuilds, and resets. And it you just find it hard to trust her. And I think, um, you know, Evelyn is a master manipulator, not just externally, but also internally with the people around her. She's very, very compelling, and she's really good at blurring the lines. Um, you know, I've noticed, during my relationship, that, of course, the other thing, she's been unfaithful in all of these relationships, including in mine. But what's really messed up is that she makes the opposite seem true. Uh, with a partner who I will not name, she externally on her podcast made it seem like he was unfaithful and accused him of doing unfaithful things. When in fact, the opposite was true, and the reason I know that is because she cheated on him with me. Um, and what was communicated to me at the time was that they were on a break or, you know, in some kind of breakup. But then a week later, or two weeks later, she's posting videos of with him as, you know, him as his him as her boyfriend. Uh, she never communicated that that we had slept together to him. Not to be trusted. Towards the end of our relationship, uh, she did the same thing to me. Uh, not to the full extent, but she had scheduled a date with another guy. Uh, she changed his contact in her phone. And that was the first time I broke up with her in in early March. In the weeks kind of like leading to our breakup, uh, our couples therapist had told me one-on-one that I should consider getting a restraining order against Evelyn. And to me, this was like mind-blowing, like it was not something I had ever considered, and I clearly did not understand how serious the situation was. I did not get a restraining order, and a few weeks later, we got into a fight. Uh, you know, I broke up with her. She left and her last text to me was, "I'm going to make sure this comes back to you 10,000 times fold." And she, I later learned, immediately went to the police and alleged that I strangled her.
[5:39]Like I said, I don't strangle people.
[5:46]I don't see any reason to do that. It's just not my nature. I don't like hurting people. I don't, I'm gentle. I, yeah, most people would say that. Uh, you know, I've been getting hundreds of messages from people who know me saying this makes no sense. Like seeing your name in this headline literally doesn't make sense. Uh, and you know, I'm not going to like get into a YouTube drama of going back and forth with screenshots and imagery. I trust the court system to reveal the truth. You know, a few other notes is despite Evelyn being, and doing the most evil thing you can do to another person, which is falsely accusing them of something atrocious. Uh, I have empathy for her, and I hope this can be a turning point for her, and I know it will be. As a dude, like it's embarrassing being a victim of abuse, you know, domestic violence, physical abuse. Uh, and you know, when a girl is much smaller than you, it's can be hard to take seriously, but it's serious and it's a huge red flag. And if you're a dude watching this, who's in a similar situation, run. There's no amount of anything that makes uh, makes being in a relationship like that worth it. You know, another note is um, with Emily and Erica, her sisters, they did not ever hit me, and as far as I'm concerned, they've never hit their partners. I, I mean, I don't know, but I would assume not. Emily's literally 17, and you know, she at one point called me an older brother, and I wish her the best. And Erica, I also don't think did anything, and I wish her the best. So I hope this doesn't impact them, and onwards and upwards, love to all, and let's see what happens.
