How To Make Men Open Up

[0:00]Women who want men to share more, to open up. Don't interrupt him. When he pauses, count to 30. Most men will come in at about 18, unless you're asking about feelings, could be three days. Don't ever ask a question that isn't worth waiting for the answer. And women start waiting for the answer. And behold, men start talking, which is amazing. He's opening up. Then they have a new complaint. Why listen to him for an hour and a half and then he didn't listen to me. Men show appreciation by take and use. Women show appreciation by direct reciprocity. I listen to you for 27 minutes. Now you listen to me for 27 minutes. And women are profoundly aware of this. We know this. Okay, it's your turn. I've been talking this whole time. Now it's your turn. It's like a little ticker going. So yeah, so women, the men will open up and then they'll complain but they're not listening to me. Well, that's a whole other thing, get listened to by a man. He's not going to do it in return. He's not built that way.