[0:00]Recorded history mein, aaj tak jisne bhi khushi dhoondi hai usse saat nukte mile hain. Yeh aaj ka mauzu hai. Jab bhi khushi hasil karni hai to yaad rakhiyega ghalat bazaar mein na jayein. Yeh materialism ke bazaar mein nahi milegi aapko. Yeh maaddi ashya ke bazaar mein nahi milegi aapko. Khushi jisne bhi dhoondi hai, saat cheezon mein mili hai usko. Woh Buddha ho, woh deen pakad lein aap. Woh koi duniya ka recorded koi scholar pakad lein. Woh Socrates pakad lein. Seven points maine similar dekhe hain aur yeh padh padh ke maine dhoonde hain. Yeh kisi kitab ka ratta nahi main bata raha. Point number one is khushi khuda ke nizam mein insan ke liye khushi rab ne rakhi hai forgiveness mein. Kis mein ji? Maafi mein. Ab mujhe ek baat batayein yeh iska weight hai. Iska weight hai. Main isko chhodun to kahan jayega upar ya neeche? Isko kanoon ki shakal mein kisne bataya tha? Gravity ke law pe kitna yaqeen hai? Yaqeen hai ke nahi hai? Yeh jo shoe hota hai na iske andar current hoti hai. Is pe haath lagaya jaye to jhatka padta hai. Kisi science-dan ne aapko bataya tha. Aisa hi hai ji? Ya aapka tajruba zaati ho sakta hai. Iman hai ke maine haath nahi dena agar haath diya to kya hoga ji? Sir mujhe ek lamhe ke liye bataiyega is duniya ke sare danishwar aqal ikatthi ho jayein mere Nabi ke samne unki haisiyat kya hai? Bone bhi nahi hai. Qadmon ki khaak ho jayein badi baat hai. Allah ke Rasool ne farmaya usse maafi chahte ho to doosron ko maaf karo. Kya yeh kanoon nahi hai? Mere Nabi kehte the to kanoon nahi hai. Kanoon se upar hogi baat. Kya baat hui ji? Agar Allah se maafi chahte ho, bando ko maaf karo. Agar tum maaf nahi karoge, woh tumhe maaf nahi karega. Darasal tumne bande ko maaf nahi kiya, woh tumhe maaf nahi kar raha. Tum bande ko maaf karo, woh tumhe maaf kar dega. Khushi ka raaz forgiveness mein hai. Yeh aisi hai jaise aapki jo gaadi hai, woh Mercedes hai. 200 kilometer per hour ki speed pe bhaag sakti hai lekin aapne rassi bandhi hui hai peeche. Single bandha hua hai. Race diye ja rahe hain, race diye ja rahe hain. Woh rassi kaatein aur us rassi kaatne ka matlab kya hai? Forgiveness. Number two. Aapko ek doosra raaz batane laga hoon. Khushi ka raaz forgetness mein hai. Badi badi ne’maton mein ek ne’mat kya hai? Bhool jana. Bache ke paas kya kamaal ki cheez hoti hai? Bhool jana. Khush rehne ke liye kya zaroori hai? Bhool jana. Lekin agar aap kahein mujhe yaad rahega, meri naslein bhi yaad rakhengi aur unki naslein bhi yaad rakhengi. Aap khush nahi ho sakte. Darasal aap kya keh rahe hain? Agar iski translation ki jaye kisi kitab pe is jumle ki, woh kya hai? Khushi nahi milegi ji. Allah ne neend kyun di hai? Bhoolne ke liye. Gham ajeeb cheez hai. Yeh Baba Ishfaq ka jumla hai. Gham aata hai pahad hota hai aur aane wale dinon mein chhota hota jata hai. Yeh paas qabrastan hai, 500 banda yahan dafan hai. Dafan karte hue dhaade maar ke log ro rahe honge. Yaar aate hi nahi hain saalon saal pade hain. Qabrein khuli padi hui hain. Phool, agarbatti lagane wala koi nahi hai. Kyun? Gham itna tha jab aaya. Kya hua? Bhulte bhulte bhulte gham khatam ho gaya. Khushi thi, kayi khushiyan aapki zindagi mein aayi. Jab aayi, aapne kaha aaj te maza aa gaya. Kithe gayi? Bhool gayi. Khushi khatam ho gayi. Toh bhoolna, forgetness, isko darguzar kehte hain, isko nazar andaaz kehte hain, isko rab pe chhodna kehte hain, isko kuch rab pe daal dena kehte hain. Yaad rakhiye thakne ke liye buniyadi asool yeh hai, main health ke liye nahi bata raha, ult bata raha hoon. Thakne ke liye buniyadi asool yeh hai, apni auqat aur zaat se zyada bojh uthana shuru kar do. Aur uska matlab kya hai? Anti tawakkal. Us pe bharosa chhod do. Jab bhi tawakkal karoge to kya hoga? Bojh kam ho jayega. Dua ka matlab kya hai? Aap usko taqatwar maan ke dua maang rahe hain ke Bari Taala tu meherbani farma de. Toh aap khud bataiye aap kisi ko keh dein. Agar aap Prime Minister ko keh dein, sir yeh mera kaam hai aur aapka yaqeen ho ke woh sunta hai. Uske baad fikar rehti hai? Nahi rehti. Hamari halat kya hoti hai? Dua karne ke baad bhi hamein fikar hoti hai. Wajah kya hai? Us pe bharosa nahi kiya hota humne, tawakkal nahi kiya hota. Pehli cheez forgiveness, doosra forgetness. The third thing, the most important thing, yaad rakhiyega qudrat ne khushi baantne mein rakhi hai, jama karne mein nahi rakhi hai. Taqseem karne mein rakhi hai. Asaani paida karne mein rakhi hai. Sakhi logon ki health zyada achi hoti hai. Baantne walon ki health zyada achi hoti hai. Kanjus bimar ho jata hai. Bada acha jumla Wasif Sahab ka hai ke ghareeb woh hai jise mazeed ki tamanna hai. Hai bada kuch, kehnda hor chahida hai. Bahut kuch hai aur aur chahiye, aap bimar hain. Baantne ka taalluq maal ke sath nahi hai. Hadis kya hai? Sakhawat ka taalluq maal ke sath nahi hai, sakhawat ka taalluq dil ke sath hai. Dil kitna bada aapka. Kya samajh aayi? Dil kitna bada hai. Hazrat Aisha se riwayat hai ke ek dafa aap tashreef farma to koi maangne wala aaya. Aapne ashrafiyan utha ke di. Woh jaane laga, aapne wapas bula liya. Wapas aao, ashrafiyan do. Ek khushboo lagi thi, woh unko laga ke phir di. Ke dena bhi hai to behtareen andaaz mein dena hai. Zara sochiye, kya khushboo ashrafi pe lagane ki zarurat thi? Nahi, isliye thi ke yeh jaye isko khushboo to yaad rahe. Isko andaaz to acha lage, isko andaaz to bhala lage. Lekin hum kya karte hain? Chal maaf kar. Ae phad, ae chuk ke de deyo ji. Kharab baasi khane mulazimon ko khilate hain, phate kapde de rahe hote hain. Aur phir kehte hain khushi nahi hai. Khushi tab hai jab khushi doge. Baantne ka matlab kya hai? Apni har woh cheez jo tumhe asaani ki shakal mili hai us mein doosron ko shamil kar lo, nahi to bachni koi nahi je. Jo Allah ne asaani di hai us mein doosron ko shamil karo. Nahi karoge to bachegi nahi. The fourth lesson, most important is, keep in your mind that Allah ne khushi woh apni yaad pe rakhi hai. Khushi is not the player, player ek aisi cheez hoti hai jisko yaad karke dukh hota hai, us waqt bada maza aata hai. Happiness ek aisi cheez hai, itminaan e qalb ek aisi cheez hai jisko yaad karke bhi khushi hoti hai. Baat samjhe ke nahi samjhe ji? Woh apni yaad mein rakhi hai. Kabhi gaur kiya aapne Allah ki yaad kya hai? Allah ki yaad bharosa hai. Allah ki yaad hai, hai mera koi. Allah ki yaad kya hai? Ek airport pe jayein na aap ya kisi bus station pe, lawaris bag pada ho na thudde pade hote hain usko. Uska waris aa jaye na kisi ki jurrat nahi hoti usko taang maar de koi. Sir aapka agar koi waris hai to phir fikar kaeki? Yeh yaqeen hona mera koi hai, mera Rab hai, jo maa ke pet mein paalta raha, jo bin maange paalta raha, jo bagair taqaze ke paalta raha, jo meri haisiyat aur auqat se zyada paalta raha. Jab yeh iman aur yaqeen hota hai to kya hota hai ji? Chautha kaam shuru ho jata hai. Yaad, zikr. Paanchwi baat yaad rakhiyega ji. Happiness ke liye, khushi ke liye seekhna bahut zaroori hai. Kuch na kuch seekhte rahein. Learn karte rahein. Kuch naya, kuch naya, kuch naya. Mere woh bade ache buddy hain purane dost hain, SSP Umair Riaz, aksar recording bhi aap meri unke sath dekhte hain. To chand din pehle aaye keh rahe the Shah Sahab maza aa gaya, maine ek nayi cheez seekhi hai. To maine kaha pata nahi kya main kya seekha hai. Kehte hain maine na shirt istri karni seekhi hai. Acha hum sabko aati hai. Jab unhone mujhe bataya to mujhe bhi nahi aati thi. Technically hamein kayi kaam nahi aate. Hamein bade kaam usool ke tahet nahi aate. Hamein vaise hi aate hain jaise humne seekhe hue hain. Yaani ek school pe survey kiya gaya. Ke ji kitne bachon ko washroom istemal karna aata hai? 90% ko nahi aata tha. Bache chhoddein badon ko nahi aata. Nahi samjhe? Sikhaya hi nahi na kisi ne. Itni personal, itni private cheez hai kisi ne sikhayi nahi. Kya khayal hai ji? Toh hamein seekhne mein sharam mehsoos nahi karni chahiye. Sixth thing. Allah ne khushi rishton mein rakhi hai. Kis mein rakhi hai ji? Rishton mein rakhi hai. Research ne yeh bataya hai ke akele rehne wale jaldi mar jate hain ji. Research ne bataya hai ke rishte nibhane walon ki taweel umar hoti hai. Research ne bataya hai ke woh log jo apne purane log, purane taalluq, purane rishtedar, purane mulazim saath leke chalte hain, woh zyada khush hote hain. Woh log jo logon ko aaye aur chalte gaye, aage nikalte gaye, bande peeche rehte gaye. Akele ho jate hain. Aur akela banda sab kuch bhi ho ghareeb hota hai. Hazrat Ali Karamullah Wajhu ne kaha tumhara dost koi nahi tum ghareeb ho. Agar zamana tumhare saath hai, ameer ho. Toh Allah ne rishton mein kya rakha hai ji? Ise main aksar kehta hoon organic motivation. Organic motivation kya hai? Bebe ka thapada. Organic motivation kya hai? Abba ki jappi. Organic motivation kya hai? Bharra ke kandhe pe haath rakh ke kehna main tere naal haan. Organic motivation kya hai? Ek abhi tohfa leke uski taraf chale jana jisko yaar hamein surprise nahi dene aate. Unhone kaha ke Shah Sahab, meri saas aapki bahut badi fan hai. To maine kaha ji welcome, foundation kisi din aa jayein. Unhone kaha nahi, woh wheel chair pe hain. Toh main kaha phir main aata hoon. Saath hi mujhe na yeh khayal aaya, maine kaha aapke ghar mein is waqt kisi ke paas koi bacha hai jiske paas mobile ho aur video on ho sakti ho? Usne kaha ji hai. Maine kaha ji aap unhein call karein aur aapne samne nahi aana, main samne achanak aaunga.
[8:44]Jaise hi woh video on hui aur us wheel chair pe jo 82 years old hamari maa thi, usne video on karke samne dekha to main tha. Mujhe follow karti hain subah sham. Woh rone lag padi. Aur usi tarah jholi utha ke duayein maangne lag padi ke Allah tujhe jahan ke rang lagaye. Maine sirf kya kiya hai? Surprise diya hai. Hamein surprise dena nahi aata. Hamein trra nikalna aata hai. Hamein roo karna aata hai. Hamein khush karna nahi aata. Yaad rakhiyega Allah ne rishton mein, apno mein khushiyan rakhi hain. Kitni cheezein hongi ji? Seventh, the most important thing ji. Ek baat yaad rakhiyega, khushi ka bada gehra taalluq apni zindagi ko qabool karne ke sath hai. Jab tak yeh gham hai, khushi hai, challenge hai, kuch bhi hai, yeh aap isko mante nahi hain, yeh mera hai. Yeh maine jee ke jaani hai. Yeh maut meri honi hai. Yeh jee main raha hoon. Hum apne na mind ki life jeete hain. Hum apni actual life jee nahi rahe hote. Bataun kaise? Aap apne ghar ke bahar khade ho ke kya kehte hain? Yeh kya hai? Mera ghar hai. Kya aapka ghar aap hain? Aap apni gaadi ko kehte hain meri gaadi hai. Kya kehte hain ji? Meri gaadi hai. Kya aapki gaadi aap hain? Nahi hai ji. Yeh mera bacha hai. Kya aapka bacha aap hain? Nahi. Aap apne kapdon ko kehte hain mere kapde hain. Kya aapke kapde aap hain? Nahi. Aap kehte hain mera haath hai. Kya aapka haath aap hain? Nahi. Mera haath hai. Aur yeh bhi aap kehte hain yeh mera dimagh hai. Yeh mera mind hai. Yeh aap nahi hain. Aap kya hain? Ek rooh hain. Jiske paas sirf present moment hai. Yeh aaj ka lamha. Zinda jaaved. Aaj ke lamhe mein rehte hue sochiye ke ek maazi hai, ek mustaqbil hai aur ek aaj hai. Aaj mein nahi jee rahe to iski saza bata deta hoon ke jo aaj mein nahi jee raha, woh do cheezon mein rahega. Ya maazi ke pachtawon mein, ya mustaqbil ke khofon mein. Aur Allah ne kya kiya hai? Jo mere dost hain, unko do cheezein main gift karta hoon. No fear future. No fear of future. And no frustration. No guilt. Woh sacchi tauba se maazi ko khatam kar dete hain. Aur bharose aur tawakkal se mustaqbil bana lete hain. La khaufuna alaihim yahi matlab ho gaya na ji? Kal pe yaqeen, Khuda pe yaqeen hai. Jab yaqeen hai, aaj ka lamha bacha sirf aapke paas hai. Aur aaj ke lamhe mein jaise hi aap rehna shuru karte hain jise mindfullness kehte hain, toh tab aapko pata lagta hai your mind hijacks you. Hamara dimagh hamein hijack kar raha hota hai, hamein pata hi nahi hota ke hamare saath ho kya raha hai. Jo hum samajh rahe hain uske ilawa ho sakta hai. Perceptions pe jeete hain. So, meri aapse guzarish hai, yeh seven jo principles maine bataye hain, inko thoda thoda follow karna shuru karein aaj se. Aapka bahut bahut shukriya ji, badi nawazish.
