This is how men experience love! #podcast #women #men #relationships

[0:00]There is something most women never get taught about how men experience love. For a grown man, respect and love are the exact same thing. Not similar, not connected, the same. When you feel loved, you feel chosen, valued, safe. When a man feels respected, he feels exactly the same way. And when you take that away from him, even in small moments, even without meaning to, something changes in him. You cannot belittle his decisions in front of others and expect him to open up to you in private. You cannot correct every little thing he does and then wonder why he stopped trying. You cannot speak to him with contempt and then ask why he feels emotionally distant. We demand unconditional love, but we offer highly conditional respect. Only when he agrees with us, only when he does things our way, only when he meets every standard we never bothered to communicate. A man will endure almost anything for a woman who genuinely honors him, but the, the second he feels like an ongoing joke in your life, his emotional walls go up permanently. Not temporarily, permanently. You cannot nag a man into being a protector. If you want a strong masculine man to cherish you, you have to stop speaking to him like he is your misbehaving teenage son. Give him his respect back before it is too late.