Why Your Relationship Is Failing (Truth Hurts) | @TonyRobbinsLive #relationship

[0:00]Your father taught you that you're his little princess, didn't he? Yes. He taught you you're perfect, didn't he? He really loved, didn't he? Yeah. Thank you, Dad. Yes. He taught you to expect the man in your life to be the same as him. But see there's only one problem. He didn't have to put up with your because you valued and admired him. You're good, right? You're so good. Good. Wow. Yes. And he didn't have sex with you, so there wasn't the peace of you feeling a sense of control over him. It wasn't something you could give or withhold from him. You would not affect his sense of love with you. So you had no power, so you worked to please him. It made you believe that love is something that should be expected, and you could take it away because it was always there from him. And you've taken it away from this man. I'm not defending anything this man has done. I don't know what he's done. I bet he's done some stupid things that he probably hates himself for it, but so of you. If I was coaching, I would probably tell him to move on. Because this girl acts sweet, is sweet, and will take away love in a heartbeat if she doesn't get what she wants. Because she's lived a life where she could. If her father had not taught her she's a princess, she would learn that she would have to find a way to meet the needs of others, not just herself and her children. And she would never take love away because she wouldn't take the risk. As a result of that, their relationship could be more deep. Because it all changed when children came, it wasn't the children, it's that she decided the love of the children was her priority, and she pulled back love from him without meaning to initially. But then when he knew things she wanted the way she wanted, she got mad, and then she did do it deliberately. And he didn't understand that at first, and then he felt hurt, and then that turned into anger, and then he did stupid things because he's used to being able to make things happen.