[0:00]Go back to 20, 30 years back, first of all, इतना work में stress होता नहीं था. Again, most of us came from families where probably one parent was working and the other was not. How many? Parenting done that way.
[0:13]Most of us came from family where grandparents were also living. Can you see the difference?
[0:18]We as children were brought up with probably one parent at home and also grandparents and probably also uncles and aunties. Imagine how much emotional vibrational strength we got.
[0:30]Then there was one parent who was coming home in the evening, a little stressed or whatever, that did not impact us too much because we had so much energy around us and this family also cooked for us.
[0:41]So हमारा अन्न का क्वालिटी भी कैसा था? एकदम ऐसा. Now cut to today, both parents working, which is not a problem at all.
[0:51]But both parents coming home saying, "I am stressed." "I am fatigued."
[1:00]And creating anger during the day, and creating fear during the day, and creating insecurity of job during the day, and creating jealousy at work, and bringing it home, and talking about people being judgmental about people bringing that energy home.
[1:15]And no grandparents in many families today. So what do you think exactly is the vibration your children are getting?
[1:24]And then going home into the kitchen in that state of mind. And saying, "क्या मुसीबत है अभी खाना भी बनाना पड़ेगा."
[1:34]Then saying, "छोड़ो ना, क्या बनाना, order कर दो इससे अच्छा." And then looking at them saying, "आजकल के बच्चे ऐसे क्यों हो गए है ये?"
[1:46]So, ready to change? Ready to change? I'm telling you we're going through a very crucial time.
[1:54]Anyone who takes a U-turn right now will be able to save their children from, anyone who says, "No, no, I don't have time for all this."
[2:04]You're cheating yourself, but you're also cheating them to whom you keep saying, "I love you so much."
[2:09]Because if you love them so much then nurture them, parent them with that highest vibrational energy. Do you remember those two plants we saw yesterday?
[2:18]One was in the meditation room, the other one was in a normal room, not that there was any negative words given to that. If two plants are growing differently, now instead of two plants put your child there in two different vibrations.
[2:33]In one vibration, the child will flower like this, bloom. And in the other, it is like this.
[2:40]And who's responsible for that? Don't say peer pressure, academic, ये सब झूठ है. This is not true.
[2:50]You, because why I'm telling you, we see every day at the center, any parent who starts meditation, the first thing that happens is their children change.
[2:59]First thing, because vibration, no, connection is very deep. So here battery charge होती है, और यहां वाली battery charge होने लग जाती है.
[3:09]Why is Prathamesh like that, the way he is? Because his mother has parented him that way. Today he can stand in front of any number of people, answer any question with self-respect and dignity, not feeling inferior in any way, not feeling lesser in any way to anybody.
[3:28]Not feeling, "I am a victim. Life has not been fair to me." Imagine, at 14 months to go through a brain surgery, at 8 years again to go through a brain surgery.
[3:36]It's not a small thing. But do you see any trace of that victim feeling in him? No. So it's not about how he speaks, it's about who he is, that is why those words touch us.
[3:46]Words have a vibration and the vibration is of the soul. So he's living through his self-respect. The world might say, "Bichara."
[3:54]And he says, "Like, I am perfectly fine, तुम bichare होंगे. If you are looking at me like this, then तुम bichare हो. Because you are not able to see me."
[4:04]And that is why, just raise your vibration, the first ones to benefit are going to be your children.
[4:12]The world next 10, 20 years is not easy. That's the world in which your children are going to go to work.
[4:21]If they can't handle exam pressure, how will they handle what's going to happen now? ठीक है. Ready to do it for them?
[4:29]Now, can we stop saying, "I don't have time"? Can we stop that line now from today? Prioritize that there is nothing more important than my energy field, your aura.
[4:38]Visualize this energy circle that we have. All of us have an aura, right? And what is the color of that aura? It is the color of who I am here.
[4:47]So when we see the pictures of deities, of prophets, what's the color of their aura? White. And how is their hand? Like this. Giver.
[4:59]So those who are going to be givers, high spiritual intelligence.
[5:03]High spiritual intelligence. This, the world that will start with all the artificial intelligence that you are creating.
[5:09]Probably we are going to create a world where intelligence might not be a priority anymore.
[5:16]But that's going to be the time where emotional intelligence will become the priority.
[5:23]Where intuition will become a priority. And so for them to be able to do it, we will need to do it, no, first.
[5:32]We will need to do it first and then it will come natural for them. ठीक है. Now, now just look at your family.
[5:38]Now don't look at them as relationship labor. Soul on a journey, soul on a journey, soul on a journey, soul on a journey, soul on a journey.
[5:49]Their journey is not only these 10, 15 years that they were born into your family.
[5:59]Easy to see the difference? Any couple sitting here? Anybody? Couple?
[6:03]खड़े हो जाओ एक मिनट. Married since how long?
[6:09]12 years. Okay. Now, everybody see your life.
[6:15]12 years, this soul and this soul living together. Even in this lifetime, they didn't start living together right from the time they came in this body. Okay? So what age you got married?
[6:24]24. So roughly she must be also 22, 23. So 24, 22, 23 years completely different life, different situations, different parents, different surroundings, everything different.
[6:36]Before that, 100 years different. Before that, 100 years different. Before that, 100 years different. Before that, 100 years different.
[6:44]How many recordings on every soul? These two of them. How many recordings on both of them?
[7:03]How many songs on both the CDs? Completely different songs. And one day Panditji said, "चलो, तथास्तु. Now live together."
[7:14]And then they look at each other and say, "How can you be like this?" And then she looks at him and says, "I was also thinking of the same thing. How can you be like this?"
[7:25]Which means, how come your song and my song is so different? How different can our songs be?
[7:32]Now go back and check your and your spouse's songs, how different are the songs? कितने different हैं? थोड़े तो same होंगे.
[7:44]बहुत different. Ha? It isliye तो जन्मपत्री match करवा के शादी करते हैं. But you know what? No guarantee.
[7:57]Because even if I have a particular sanskar the day I'm getting married, next year I lose my job, my sanskar has gone changed. Because my mind is dependent on the outer world. So don't say, "पहले तो आप ऐसे थे, अब तो आप बदल गए."
[8:09]They are going to change. We are all going to change, whether this way or this way. Either we go down or we go up, we are going to change. Nobody remains like this. Koi bhi aise nahi rahega kabhi bhi.
[8:22]So even this expectation that they should be how they were that time when I met them is image of what I want the person to be and my attachment to that image.
[8:34]पहले तो आप ऐसे बात किया करते थे. And now because आप ऐसे बात नहीं करते, means you don't care for me, means you don't love me, means you don't respect me, becomes my song.
[8:44]And the other person tries so hard that how am I supposed to prove to you all this? No, but you're not like that. My attachment to the image of how I want the person to be, remember, they are a soul on a journey.
[8:57]Now tell me, how different will their songs be?
[9:02]Is there any sanskar which is absolutely different? Is there any sanskar which is absolutely identical?
[9:09]Have you taken time to even see each other's sanskar? You know, when we got to see our sanskar, were when we were in the lockdown.
[9:16]Yes, how many of you felt you got to know the other person better in the lockdown? Yeah, same.
[9:22]But that was a very beautiful period. Some people, we know some people who actually healed conflicts during lockdown.
[9:30]And there were some people who decided to separate during lockdown. They said, "You are like this, I didn't know."
[9:35]Because we used to meet only at 8:00 in the evening, no? So how would I come to know? And lockdown was suddenly everyone. So now, these two CDs get married.
[9:44]They have different songs. They are trying to adjust with each other's songs. They are trying very hard. You copy my song. They say, "No, easier, you copy my song."
[9:53]Relationship means nobody needs to copy each other's songs. But relationship means I will need to accept the other person's song and learn to continue playing my song, and if my song is not right, I can change my song.
[10:10]But to say you become like me, that is not going to happen. We'll see that later. Now, within a few years, there is a third CD which came home. Do you have your third CD? Yeah. Okay.
[10:19]Right? Now nine months, they thought a blank CD is going to come. And so, "मेरा बच्चा ऐसा होगा, मेरा बच्चा ऐसा होगा, मेरा बच्चा ऐसा होगा."
[10:29]Then even हम उसको ये बनाएंगे, हम ये करेंगे, ये वो करेंगे. Any of you got a blank CD? No.
[10:36]Because that's not a blank CD. It's just the baby's, the child body. Soul on a long, long, long journey.
[10:43]So now comes a third CD with a completely different set of sanskar and karma.
[10:51]How many of you have two children? And how many of you feel your two children are different from each other?
[10:58]Different, better. Now, ever thought, why are they so different from each other? Born to the same parents, in the same house, brought up in the same environment, with the same resources, given the best of everything the same, and given the same nurturing.
[11:13]Why are they so different? Because they are only playing the role of two children in the same house now. Before this,
[11:20]Before this, different, different, different. Now, if you start looking at them with that understanding, it becomes so easy to understand the other person.
[11:34]Because now you're not saying, "My child should be like this." No, you say, "Okay, this soul got this sanskar sometime."
[11:42]And now because I am playing the role of nurturing, I'm going to help this soul to change that sanskar.
[11:50]Let's say for example, look at how many different ways today death happens.
[11:58]Just look at the different ways in death happens. Very rarely is it a natural death now. It's achanak, achanak, achanak.
[12:04]War in one country going on since so many months. Can you imagine in what state of mind people leave the body?
[12:14]Fear is not the only... We've seen so much before that. Now even look at a simple thing, you must have seen last few months back during the rainy season, there was a video, it went viral.
[12:23]Where a family was near a waterfall, having a picnic. Anyone saw that video? Yeah? Okay. Now just put yourself in that place and see what life is.
[12:33]Picnic, five of a family eating, पानी बह रहा है, having a great time.
[12:39]And suddenly within a few seconds, what happened last week? Bangkok. Within a few seconds. Everything happens within a few seconds.
[12:48]And in those few seconds, that soul leaves the body, but what happens before they are just leaving? Can you visualize standing on the waterfall, what would have happened just before leaving the costume?
[13:00]Fear, what happens that time? Panic. If you're holding your child's hand just before leaving,
[13:08]And the child literally slips out of your hand into that water just before leaving. What's going to get recorded?
[13:14]What's getting recorded? Fear of losing people.
[13:19]And this is only one recording that has happened only while leaving. Imagine how many recordings have happened in one lifetime.
[13:29]Now, only if we see the last recording, and now this soul enters into the womb of a mother, comes to your family, everything perfect, family perfect. Parents, national level swimmer.
[13:40]And they've already started deciding. My child is going to be,
[13:45]My child, I didn't get to go to the Olympics, my child will go. Good thought, pure thought, beautiful. Now, baby born, three years old, they take the child to the swimming pool first time.
[13:58]What is the child going to do looking at water? What is the child going to do looking at water? Cries and runs away. Parents are shocked.
[14:07]मेरा बच्चा पानी से डरता है. मेरा बच्चा पानी से डरता है. Now there is fear, there is worry, there is criticism, there is comparison, there is ridicule.
[14:20]डरपोक. पानी से डरता है. उसको देख. वो कितना बहादुर है, तू कितना डरपोक. All this because,
[14:30]Now if somebody had to gently go, tap the shoulder of that parent and say, "आपको याद है वो waterfall में वो आत्मा ने शरीर छोड़ा था? यह वो वाली आत्मा है."
[14:42]Now what will happen to the parent? No, shift. One piece of knowledge, understanding.
[14:50]What will happen to the parent? Will they still fear? Will they still panic? Will they still criticize? Will they still ridicule? No. What will they do?
[14:59]Compassion, empathy, acceptance. This is power.
[15:03]And that is the reason why people go and get past life regression done. We don't need to get it done, and we shouldn't get it done.
[15:10]We don't need to get it done. We just need to understand. Don't need to know what exactly happened. Why do we need to know what exactly happened? We just need to understand something happened.
[15:22]Now, fear of water is easy to understand. But this child who will come into this family will not just have fear of water.
[15:29]They will have fear of losing people.
[15:33]And this fear of losing people, if it is not healed by the parents, it converts into an obsession in marriage.
[15:43]And this obsession can actually lead to violence in marriage. Because that becomes a sense of control. You're always with me. You will never leave me.
[15:51]And in that case, all these cases, it's the other person thinks, "I am the victim of this kind of behavior." But the reality is that soul is the victim of their past recording.
[16:04]Will anything change now? Will anything change now? From expectations, we shift to trying, just gently try. You might not get all the answers the first time.
[16:16]But gently try what must have happened for them to be carrying this kind of a sanskar.
[16:25]Something has happened. Some people fear trust. Now one spouse trusts blindly, the other spouse just cannot trust the other person.
[16:36]It's like, "You don't trust me." Please remember, it's not they don't trust me, it's just that they don't have that song of trust.
[16:45]But we always like to take it to me. It's about me. No, it's not about me. It's about them. It's about them. Start looking at them. Don't always say this is me. It's not me. It's they. What are they going through?
[17:01]Now close your eyes. Go home. Don't fall off to sleep. Just go home.
[17:10]And now just look at those two, three, four members in the family, just a slight different way. They are a soul on a journey.
[17:21]A journey that I don't know anything about. I have no idea what this soul has seen on this long journey.
[17:33]Absolutely no idea. It is beyond our imagination what all they could have seen in so many lifetimes.
[17:39]They could have seen betrayal, they could have seen cheating.
[17:43]They could have seen a lot more than that. We don't talking about it.
[17:51]They could have gone through something which has made them very insecure right now.
[17:58]It has made somebody very quiet.
[18:03]It has made somebody not able to trust people easily. It has made someone very dominating.
[18:13]Every pattern of theirs, every sanskar of theirs, is a recording on the soul of past lifetime situations.
[18:25]Now, just choose one of them. Which means choose one soul and choose any one sanskar of theirs, which you feel needs a slight change.
[18:55]If you've chosen, then just raise your hand so we move ahead. Okay, good. Easy.
[19:00]Now, just look at them as a point of light. Because when you look at them as a body and as a relationship, ego, attachment, fear comes in the picture.
[19:11]But when I the soul look at the soul, I'm detached and detachment is power. Biggest power is detachment because detachment allows me to remain strong and empower them.
[19:23]So now look at that soul as a point of light and first line you are going to say to them, "I understand you." This is love.
[19:36]"I can't understand you" rejection है. So just look at them and say, "I understand." Understand means now I understand that this sanskar or this behavior is some past carried forward.
[19:50]"I understand you." Second thought, "I accept you." This is love.
[20:00]"I accept you" means I will not create any lower energy thought.
[20:07]Now third, very carefully listen, ध्यान से करना है. Whichever sanskar they are carrying, which is not a comfortable sanskar, now we are going to create a blessing for them, which is going to help them to change that sanskar.
[21:10]And the method to create a blessing is, like let's say, the soul carries fear, then your blessing is going to be, "You are a powerful, confident soul."
[21:23]Which means the affirmative vocabulary. Affirmations are blessings. Which means affirmations, blessings, everything is higher vibrational vocabulary.
[21:32]So basically you are giving them the vitamin of which they have a deficiency.
[21:40]"You are a powerful, confident soul." Let's say someone is feeling low, you're going to create a thought, "You are always happy."
[21:54]Someone is not able to trust, you're going to create a thought, "You are a pure soul. Trust comes natural to you."
[22:03]Just check the vocabulary. Then you can do it for everyone.
[22:07]Just what they don't have, we are going to say, "You are." Yesterday what did we do? I am. Today what are we doing? You are. Both are blessings. I am, you are.
[22:21]So whatever they are lacking in, we have to give them that. What were we doing earlier? We were repeating their lack.
[22:30]ये कितना डरपोक है, ये क्यों डरता है, ये क्यों डरता है? Every time I repeat their weakness in my mind or in my words, I am reinforcing that weakness because I am radiating that vibration of that same energy to them. And I am depleting myself, depleting them, and I am depleting the vibrations of the house.
[22:52]मिल गया सबके लिए? If suppose someone is, you know, always seeking, needing, wanting approval, say, "You are a contented soul. आप संतुष्ट आत्मा है."
[23:03]Easy है ये? Okay, you just have to get the method then तो it's a journey of doing this. किस-किस को आ गया? Easy, बहुत easy है. So you're only converting,
[23:14]Again you're using that same thing के संकल्प से सिद्धि होने वाली है. If I keep repeating the negative word, which means whatever I feel is not perfect in them, that will only, that recording will only get repeated.
[23:28]So it's like two plants again. If you want to finish this plant and you want this plant to grow, stop watering this one and start watering this one. So here is a sanskar of doubt, you want to create a sanskar of trust in that soul. If you keep repeating, "आप मुझे doubt करते हैं, आप मुझे doubt करते हैं, आप मुझे क्यों doubt करते हैं?" That sanskar of doubt will get reinforced.
[23:53]Just stop talking about that word. And just create one thought, "You trust me completely. Trust comes natural to you. Trust is your normal sanskar. You trust everyone." Just give them that vibration of trust, trust, trust, trust.
