3 Things That Instantly Reveal Someone's True Character - Machiavelli

[0:00]YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH THE ENEMY YOU ARE HIRING THE TRAITOR YOU ARE CONFIDING IN THE SPY AND YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW IT MOST PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT TIME REVEALS CHARACTER THEY THINK IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE FOR TEN YEARS YOU KNOW THEIR SOUL THAT IS A LIE TIME DOES NOT REVEAL CHARACTER TIME ALLOWS PEOPLE TO PERFECT THEIR MASK A PSYCHOPATH CAN HOLD A POSE FOR A LIFETIME IF THE LIGHTING IS RIGHT NICCOLO MACHIAVELLI THE MAN WHO SAW THE HUMAN ANIMAL WITHOUT ITS CLOTHES KNEW THE TRUTH HE KNEW THAT CHARACTER IS NOT REVEALED IN THE LONG SUNNY DAYS OF PEACE CHARACTER IS REVEALED IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE IN THE FRACTURE IN THE THIN SLICES OF BEHAVIOUR THAT HAPPEN WHEN THE MASK SLIPS FOR A FRACTION OF A SECOND YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING AT THE PAINTING I'M GOING TO TEACH YOU HOW TO LOOK AT THE CRACKS IN THE CANVAS THERE ARE THREE SPECIFIC MOMENTS THREE PSYCHOLOGICAL TRIP WIRES THAT INSTANTLY FORCE A HUMAN BEING TO SHOW YOU EXACTLY WHO THEY ARE MOST PEOPLE MISS THESE MOMENTS BECAUSE THEY ARE TOO BUSY LISTENING TO WORDS BUT IF YOU WATCH IF YOU KNOW WHERE TO LOOK YOU WILL SEE THE MONSTER BEFORE IT BITES YOU AND ONCE YOU SEE IT YOU CAN NEVER UNSEE IT WE LIVE IN A THEATRE EVERY MORNING YOU WAKE UP YOU PUT ON YOUR COSTUME YOU REHEARSE YOUR LINES AND YOU WALK OUT INTO THE WORLD YOUR BOSS DOES IT YOUR PARTNER DOES IT YOUR BEST FRIEND DOES IT WE ARE ALL PERFORMING THE VERSION OF OURSELVES THAT WE WANT THE WORLD TO BUY THIS IS NOT NECESSARILY EVIL IT IS SOCIAL SURVIVAL IF WE ALL TOLD THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT WE WERE THINKING SOCIETY WOULD COLLAPSE BY NOON BUT THERE ARE SOME ACTORS WHO ARE NOT PLAYING A ROLE FOR SURVIVAL THEY ARE PLAYING A ROLE FOR PREDATION THEY ARE THE NARCISSISTS THE MACHIAVELLIANS THE COVERT MANIPULATORS WHO VIEW YOU NOT AS A PERSON BUT AS A BATTERY A SOURCE OF FUEL THEY ARE CHARMING THEY ARE OFTEN THE MOST CHARISMATIC PEOPLE IN THE ROOM THEY MIRROR YOUR VALUES THEY LAUGH AT YOUR JOKES THEY MAKE YOU FEEL SEEN BUT IT IS A SIMULATION MACHIAVELLI WROTE IN THE PRINCE EVERYONE SEES WHAT YOU APPEAR TO BE FEW EXPERIENCE WHO YOU REALLY ARE WHY BECAUSE THE PREDATOR CONTROLS THE INTERACTION THEY CONTROL THE LIGHTING TO SEE THE TRUTH YOU MUST CHANGE THE LIGHTING YOU MUST INTRODUCE A VARIABLE THAT THEY DID NOT REHEARSE FOR YOU MUST APPLY PRESSURE NOT BIG PRESSURE NOT A CRISIS A CRISIS IS TOO OBVIOUS IN A CRISIS EVEN THE COWARD CAN ACT BRAVE FOR A MINUTE NO YOU NEED THE THIN SLICE PSYCHOLOGIST NALINI AMBADY AT HARVARD CONDUCTED RESEARCH ON THIN SLICES OF BEHAVIOR SHE FOUND THAT HUMANS CAN ACCURATELY JUDGE A PERSON'S CHARACTER WITHIN LESS THAN FIVE MINUTES OF OBSERVATION OFTEN MORE ACCURATELY THAN AFTER MONTHS OF ACQUAINTANCE WHY BECAUSE THE INTUITION CATCHES THE MICRO LEAKAGE THAT THE LOGICAL BRAIN MISSES WE ARE GOING TO SHARPEN THAT INTUITION INTO A WEAPON WE ARE GOING TO EXPLORE THREE SPECIFIC THIN SLICE SCENARIOS THESE ARE NOT GENERIC TRUST YOUR GUT ADVICE THESE ARE STRESS TESTS IF YOU APPLY THESE THE MASK WILL FALL AND YOU WILL BE LEFT WITH THE COLD HARD REALITY OF THE PERSON STANDING IN FRONT OF YOU BE WARNED YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE WHAT YOU SEE YOU MIGHT REALIZE THAT THE PERSON SLEEPING NEXT TO YOU HAS BEEN A STRANGER FOR YEARS ARE YOU READY TO LOOK THE FIRST REVELATION THE MICRO DENIAL THE BOUNDARY TEST LET'S BEGIN WITH THE MOST SUBTLE YET THE MOST VIOLENT INDICATOR HOW DOES A PERSON REACT WHEN YOU TELL THEM NO TO SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T MATTER I CALL THIS THE MICRO DENIAL HERE IS THE PSYCHOLOGY A MANIPULATOR A NARCISSIST OR A PERSON WITH A DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY PROFILE VIEWS OTHER PEOPLE AS EXTENSIONS OF THEMSELVES THEY DO NOT SEE YOU AS A SEPARATE ENTITY WITH YOUR OWN AUTONOMY THEY SEE YOU AS AN ARM OR A LEG WHEN YOU MOVE YOUR ARM IT MOVES YOU DON'T ASK IT YOU COMMAND IT WHEN THEY ASK YOU FOR A SMALL FAVOUR CAN YOU GRAB ME A COFFEE CAN WE CHANGE THE RESTAURANT CAN I BORROW YOUR CHARGER THEY ARE NOT ASKING THEY ARE COMMANDING THEIR LIMB TO MOVE SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE LIMB REFUSES WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU SAY NO I CAN'T DO THAT RIGHT NOW FOR A HEALTHY PERSON A SMALL NO IS NOTHING IT IS DATA OKAY NO PROBLEM THEY MOVE ON THEIR EGO IS INTACT BUT FOR THE PERSON WITH A CORRUPTED CHARACTER A SMALL NO IS A METAPHYSICAL SHOCK IT IS A REBELLION IT IS THE ARM CUTTING ITSELF OFF FROM THE BODY THEY CANNOT PROCESS IT WATCH THE FACE MACHIAVELLI OBSERVED THAT MEN ARE DRIVEN BY TWO THINGS FEAR AND LOVE BUT THE TYRANT IS DRIVEN BY A THIRD CONTROL WHEN YOU DELIVER THE MICRO DENIAL YOU WILL SEE THE MASK SLIP IT HAPPENS FAST IT LASTS MAYBE HALF A SECOND THEIR SMILE WILL FREEZE THE LIGHT WILL LEAVE THEIR EYES A FLASH OF PURE COLD RAGE WILL PASS ACROSS THEIR FEATURES PAUL EKMAN THE RESEARCHER WHO MAPPED THE HUMAN FACE CALLS THIS A MICRO EXPRESSION IT IS INVOLUNTARY THE REPTILIAN BRAIN REACTS BEFORE THE SOCIAL MASK CAN CATCH UP NO PROBLEM THEY MIGHT RECOVER QUICKLY THEY MIGHT SAY OH SURE TOTALLY FINE BUT YOU SAW IT YOU SAW THE GLITCH WHY IS THIS THE MOST DANGEROUS SIGN BECAUSE IF THEY RAGE AT A SMALL NO IMAGINE WHAT THEY WILL DO WHEN YOU GIVE THEM A BIG NO IF THEY CANNOT HANDLE YOU REFUSING TO BUY THEM A DRINK HOW WILL THEY HANDLE YOU REFUSING TO SIGN A CONTRACT HOW WILL THEY HANDLE YOU LEAVING THE RELATIONSHIP THEY WON'T THEY WILL DESTROY YOU THE MICRO DENIAL REVEALS THE ENTITLEMENT OF THE SOUL IT SHOWS YOU THAT THEIR KINDNESS IS ENTIRELY CONDITIONAL ON YOUR OBEDIENCE TEST THIS TOMORROW PICK SOMEONE YOU SUSPECT SOMEONE WHO IS ALWAYS CHARMING ALWAYS NICE BUT SOMETHING FEELS OFF WAIT FOR THEM TO ASK FOR A SMALL TRIVIAL FAVOUR AND SIMPLY SAY NICELY NO I CAN'T DO THAT DON'T OFFER A BIG EXCUSE DON'T APOLOGIZE PROFUSELY JUST SET THE BOUNDARY AND THEN WATCH THEIR EYES IF THEY LOOK CONFUSED THAT'S NORMAL IF THEY LOOK DISAPPOINTED THAT'S NORMAL BUT IF THEY LOOK INSULTED IF YOU FEEL A SUDDEN DROP IN THE TEMPERATURE OF THE ROOM YOU ARE IN THE PRESENCE OF A TYRANT WHO IS CURRENTLY PRETENDING TO BE A FRIEND MACHIAVELLI WOULD TELL YOU TO DISTANCE YOURSELF IMMEDIATELY BECAUSE A MAN WHO CANNOT RESPECT A SMALL BOUNDARY WILL EVENTUALLY VIOLATE A LARGE ONE HE IS NOT ASKING FOR YOUR HELP HE IS TESTING YOUR SUBMISSION AND YOU JUST FAILED THE TEST WHICH MEANS IN HIS EYES YOU HAVE BECOME AN ENEMY BUT THE REACTION TO NO IS ONLY THE FIRST LAYER IT REVEALS THEIR NEED FOR CONTROL BUT WHAT ABOUT THEIR HEART WHAT ABOUT THEIR LOYALTY THERE IS A DARKER TEST A TEST THAT REVEALS NOT HOW THEY TREAT YOU WHEN YOU DEFY THEM BUT HOW THEY TREAT YOU WHEN YOU SUCCEED THIS IS WHERE THE MASK DOESN'T JUST SLIP IT SHATTERS THE SECOND REVELATION THE SILENT FUNERAL THE ENVY AUDIT ROBERT GREEN THE MODERN MACHIAVELLI WROTE ENVY IS A WEED THAT SHOULD NOT BE WATERED BUT I TELL YOU YOU MUST WATER IT YOU MUST WATER IT JUST ENOUGH TO SEE WHERE THE ROOTS ARE GROWING THE SECOND THING THAT INSTANTLY REVEALS CHARACTER IS THE SILENT FUNERAL THIS IS HOW A PERSON REACTS TO YOUR GOOD NEWS WE ARE TAUGHT THAT FRIENDS CRY WITH US WHEN WE ARE IN PAIN THAT IS TRUE BUT EMPATHY FOR SUFFERING IS EASY IT COSTS NOTHING IN FACT SEEING YOU SUFFER CAN MAKE A TOXIC PERSON FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES IT TRIGGERS THEIR SAVIOR COMPLEX OR THEIR SCHADENFREUDE IT IS EASY TO HUG A CRYING MAN IT MAKES YOU FEEL STRONG BUT TO CELEBRATE A WINNING MAN TO CHEER FOR A FRIEND WHO HAS JUST SURPASSED YOU THAT REQUIRES A NOBILITY OF SPIRIT THAT IS INCREDIBLY RARE MACHIAVELLI NOTED THAT MEN ARE SO SIMPLE AND SO READY TO OBEY PRESENT NECESSITIES BUT HE ALSO KNEW THAT MEN ARE INHERENTLY COMPETITIVE IN THE ZERO SUM GAME OF THE DARK PSYCHE YOUR WIN IS THEIR LOSS HERE IS THE TEST THE GOOD NEWS DROP YOU HAVE JUST ACHIEVED SOMETHING A RAISE A NEW RELATIONSHIP A PHYSICAL TRANSFORMATION A SMALL VICTORY SHARE IT WITH THEM BUT DO NOT BE HUMBLE DO NOT SELF DEPRECATE SHARE IT WITH JOY I FINALLY GOT THAT DEAL I'M SO HAPPY NOW FREEZE TIME DO NOT LISTEN TO THEIR WORDS WORDS ARE CHEAP OH MY GOD CONGRATULATIONS THAT'S AMAZING IGNORE THE AUDIO WATCH THE VIDEO LOOK AT THE THIN SLICES DOES THE SMILE REACH THEIR EYES OR IS THE MOUTH SMILING WHILE THE EYES REMAIN DEAD IS THERE A MICRO DELAY A SPLIT SECOND OF HESITATION BEFORE THEY PERFORM THE CELEBRATION DO THEY IMMEDIATELY PIVOT THE CONVERSATION BACK TO THEMSELVES THAT'S GREAT IT REMINDS ME OF WHEN I OR WORSE DO THEY OFFER THE POISONED COMPLIMENT WOW YOU GOT THE JOB I'M SURPRISED THEY HIRED SOMEONE WITH YOUR EXPERIENCE YOU GOT LUCKY YOU LOOK GREAT YOU ALMOST LOOK LIKE YOUR OLD SELF THIS IS THE SILENT FUNERAL THEY ARE MOURNING THEIR OWN STATUS YOUR SUCCESS HAS HELD UP A MIRROR TO THEIR STAGNATION AND THEY HATE YOU FOR IT WHY IS THIS LETHAL BECAUSE A PERSON WHO CANNOT CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESS IS A SABOTEUR IN WAITING THEY ARE THE SMILING SABOTEUR WE SPOKE OF BEFORE THEY ARE PRAYING FOR YOUR DOWNFALL WHEN YOU ARE WINNING THEY ARE PLOTTING WHEN YOU STUMBLE THEY WILL BE THE FIRST TO OFFER A HAND NOT TO PULL YOU UP BUT TO HOLD YOU DOWN IN THE COURT OF THE PRINCE MACHIAVELLI WARNED AGAINST THOSE WHO FLATTER YOU BUT HE SHOULD HAVE WARNED EVEN MORE STRICTLY AGAINST THOSE WHO GO QUIET WHEN YOU WIN THE SILENCE OF A FRIEND DURING YOUR VICTORY IS THE LOUDEST WARNING SHOT YOU WILL EVER HEAR IT MEANS THEY WERE NEVER YOUR FRIEND THEY WERE YOUR COMPETITOR AND YOU WERE JUST TOO BLIND TO SEE THE SCOREBOARD IF YOU SEE THE SILENT FUNERAL DO NOT CONFRONT THEM DO NOT CALL THEM OUT USE THE MACHIAVELLIAN LAW OF CONCEALMENT STOP SHARING YOUR WINS GO DARK BECOME GRAY FEED THEM THE MISERY THEY CRAVE TELL THEM THINGS ARE TOUGH TELL THEM YOU ARE STRUGGLING WATCH HOW THEY LIGHT UP WATCH HOW THEIR ENERGY RETURNS THEY WILL BECOME ANIMATED HELPFUL TALKATIVE THEY WILL LOVE YOU AGAIN BECAUSE YOU ARE BACK WHERE THEY WANT YOU BENEATH THEM THIS CONFIRMS THE DIAGNOSIS THEY ARE A VAMPIRE OF POTENTIAL AND YOU MUST DRIVE A STAKE THROUGH THE RELATIONSHIP BEFORE THEY DRAIN YOU DRY BUT ENVY AND CONTROL ARE INTERNAL STATES THEY ARE THINGS THAT HAPPEN INSIDE THE MIND OF THE OTHER PERSON THE THIRD REVELATION IS DIFFERENT THE THIRD REVELATION IS ABOUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE CHAINS ARE TAKEN OFF WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A PERSON THINKS THEY ARE GOD WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THEY THINK THERE ARE NO CONSEQUENCES THIS IS THE ULTIMATE TEST THE RING OF GAUGES AND IT REVEALS THE DARKEST TRUTH OF ALL THE THIRD REVELATION THE IMPUNITY FACTOR THE WAITER RULE TWO POINT ZERO THERE IS A FAMOUS CONCEPT CALLED THE WAITER RULE IT SUGGESTS THAT YOU CAN JUDGE A PERSON'S CHARACTER BY HOW THEY TREAT SERVICE STAFF IF THEY ARE NICE TO YOU BUT RUDE TO THE WAITER THEY ARE NOT A NICE PERSON THIS IS TRUE BUT IT IS BASIC IT IS CHARACTER ASSESSMENT ONE O ONE WE ARE GOING TO TAKE THIS TO THE GRADUATE LEVEL WE ARE GOING TO THE MACHIAVELLIAN DEEP END THE TRUE TEST IS NOT JUST HOW THEY TREAT A WAITER IT IS HOW THEY TREAT ANYONE OVER WHOM THEY HAVE ABSOLUTE UNCHECKED POWER IN A MOMENT OF STRESS I CALL THIS THE IMPUNITY FACTOR ABRAHAM LINCOLN FAMOUSLY SAID NEARLY ALL MEN CAN STAND ADVERSITY BUT IF YOU WANT TO TEST A MAN'S CHARACTER GIVE HIM POWER YOU DON'T NEED TO MAKE THEM A PRESIDENT TO TEST THIS YOU JUST NEED TO WATCH THEM IN A MOMENT WHERE THEY HOLD THE UPPER HAND WATCH THEM WHEN THEY ARE THE CUSTOMER AND THERE IS A MISTAKE WATCH THEM WHEN THEY ARE THE BOSS AND A DEADLINE IS MISSED WATCH THEM WHEN THEY ARE DRIVING A CAR AND A PEDESTRIAN WALKS TOO SLOW IN THAT MOMENT THEY HAVE POWER THEY ARE IN THE METAL BOX THE PEDESTRIAN IS FLESH THEY HAVE IMMUNITY THEY ARE ANONYMOUS THEY WILL BE GONE IN SECONDS WHAT DO THEY DO DO THEY YIELD OR DO THEY ACCELERATE DO THEY SCREAM INSIDE THE SAFETY OF THEIR GLASS CAGE MEN ARE GOOD ONLY WHEN FORCED THIS REVEALS THE SHADOW SELF THE SHADOW SELF IS WHO THE PERSON WOULD BE IF LAWS AND SOCIAL NORMS DID NOT EXIST MACHIAVELLI WROTE THAT MEN ARE UNGRATEFUL FICKLE FALSE COWARDLY COVETOUS HE BELIEVED THAT MEN ARE ONLY GOOD WHEN THEY ARE FORCED TO BE GOOD BY NECESSITY WHEN THE NECESSITY IS REMOVED WHEN THEY CAN BE CRUEL WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE THE TRUE NATURE IS REVEALED LOOK FOR THE POWER TRIP YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE PERSON WHO ENJOYS THE SUFFERING OF THE SUBORDINATE IT'S THE SUBTLE SMIRK WHEN THEY CORRECT SOMEONE'S GRAMMAR IN PUBLIC IT'S THE EXTRA FIVE MINUTES THEY MAKE SOMEONE WAIT JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN IT'S THE WAY THEY WITHHOLD INFORMATION TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE STRUGGLE THIS IS NOT ABOUT BEING RUDE THIS IS ABOUT SADISM SADISM IS NOT JUST FOR SERIAL KILLERS IT IS A SPECTRUM EVERY TIME A PERSON USES THEIR SMALL AMOUNT OF POWER TO MAKE ANOTHER PERSON FEEL SMALL THEY ARE REVEALING THAT THEIR CORE CHARACTER IS PREDATORY THEY ARE SHOWING YOU THAT THE ONLY REASON THEY HAVEN'T HURT YOU YET IS BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE POWER OVER YOU YET YOU ARE CURRENTLY AN EQUAL OR MAYBE YOU ARE A SUPERIOR SO THEY TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT BUT THE MOMENT THE DYNAMIC SHIFTS THE MOMENT YOU NEED THEM THE MOMENT YOU ARE VULNERABLE THEY WILL TREAT YOU EXACTLY LIKE THEY TREATED THAT WAITER EXACTLY LIKE THEY TREATED THAT PEDESTRIAN BECAUSE CHARACTER DOES NOT CHANGE BASED ON WHO IS STANDING IN FRONT OF IT CHARACTER IS THE OPERATING SYSTEM IF THE OS IS PROGRAMMED TO CRUSH THE WEAK IT WILL CRUSH YOU THE MOMENT YOU SHOW WEAKNESS DO NOT BE FOOLED BY HOW THEY TREAT THE KINGS WATCH HOW THEY TREAT THE PAWNS BECAUSE TO THE NARCISSIST EVERYONE EVENTUALLY BECOMES A PAWN EVEN YOU STOP LISTENING TO THE WORDS THE MICRO DENIAL THE SILENT FUNERAL THE IMPUNITY FACTOR THESE ARE THE THREE COORDINATES OF THE DARK MAP IF YOU SEE ONE BE CAUTIOUS EVERYONE HAS A BAD DAY EVERYONE HAS A MOMENT OF WEAKNESS IF YOU SEE TWO BE ARMED YOU ARE DEALING WITH A DANGEROUS PERSONALITY IF YOU SEE THREE YOU ARE IN THE CAGE WITH A TIGER AND JUST BECAUSE IT HASN'T EATEN YOU YET DOESN'T MEAN IT'S VEGAN IT JUST MEANS IT ISN'T HUNGRY RIGHT NOW BUT TIGERS ALWAYS GET HUNGRY YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT YOU CANNOT FIX THIS YOU CANNOT LOVE THE ENTITLEMENT OUT OF THEM YOU CANNOT SUPPORT THE ENVY OUT OF THEM YOU CANNOT TEACH THE CRUELTY OUT OF THEM THESE ARE NOT HABITS THESE ARE NATURE AND AS THE FABLE OF THE SCORPION AND THE FROG TEACHES US NATURE ALWAYS WINS SO WHAT DO YOU DO YOU DO NOT MAKE A SCENE YOU DO NOT ACCUSE THEM YOU BECOME FORMLESS YOU SLOWLY WITHDRAW YOUR ENERGY YOU SLOWLY WITHDRAW YOUR SECRETS YOU SLOWLY WITHDRAW YOUR ACCESS YOU FADE INTO THE BACKGROUND LET THEM FIND A NEW SOURCE OF SUPPLY LET THEM FIND A NEW VICTIM TO CONTROL TO ENVY AND TO CRUSH DO NOT LET IT BE YOU BECAUSE THE PRICE OF KEEPING THESE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE IS NOT JUST YOUR PEACE IT IS YOUR SOUL THEY WILL EAT YOUR LIGHT TO FEED THEIR DARKNESS DON'T LET THEM NOW PAUSE TAKE A BREATH YOU HAVE BEEN NODDING YOUR HEAD YOU HAVE BEEN THINKING OF NAMES YOU HAVE BEEN CATALOGUING THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE WHO FIT THESE DESCRIPTIONS YES MY BOSS DOES THAT YES MY EX DID THAT YES MY FRIEND IS EXACTLY LIKE THAT IT FEELS GOOD DOESN'T IT IT FEELS GOOD TO HOLD THE MAGNIFYING GLASS AND EXAMINE THE FLAWS OF THE MONSTERS AROUND YOU IT FEELS SAFE TO BE THE OBSERVER BUT I DID NOT BRING YOU HERE JUST TO GIVE YOU A WEAPON TO USE AGAINST OTHERS THAT WOULD BE TOO EASY AND MACHIAVELLI WAS NEVER ABOUT EASY I BROUGHT YOU HERE TO GIVE YOU THE ULTIMATE WEAPON THE ONE THAT CUTS BOTH WAYS BECAUSE IF YOU WANT TO BE TRULY UNTOUCHABLE IF YOU WANT TO BE AN OUTLIER YOU MUST DO THE ONE THING THAT NINETY NINE PERCENT OF PEOPLE ARE TOO COWARDLY TO DO YOU MUST TURN THE MAGNIFYING GLASS AROUND YOU MUST LOOK AT YOURSELF BECAUSE THE UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTH THE ONE THAT MIGHT MAKE YOU CLICK OFF THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IS THAT YOU HAVE DONE THESE THINGS MAYBE NOT ALL OF THEM MAYBE NOT OFTEN BUT BE HONEST HAVE YOU EVER FELT A FLASH OF RAGE WHEN SOMEONE TOLD YOU NO HAVE YOU EVER FELT A PANG OF SICKNESS WHEN A FRIEND SUCCEEDED WHERE YOU FAILED HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN YOUR STRESS OUT ON SOMEONE WHO COULDN'T FIGHT BACK IF YOU SAY NEVER YOU ARE A LIAR AND A LIAR IS THE MOST DANGEROUS CHARACTER OF ALL WE ALL HAVE THE SHADOW THE DIFFERENCE IS THAT THE OUTLIER OWNS THE SHADOW WHILE THE AVERAGE MAN IS POSSESSED BY IT TO TRULY MASTER THE ART OF CHARACTER YOU MUST AUDIT YOUR OWN SOUL WITH THE SAME RUTHLESSNESS THAT YOU AUDIT OTHERS THIS IS NOT ABOUT GUILT GUILT IS A USELESS EMOTION IT IS A WASTE OF ENERGY THIS IS ABOUT CALIBRATION IF YOU WANT TO SURROUND YOURSELF WITH HIGH VALUE LOYAL POWERFUL PEOPLE YOU CANNOT BE A COVERT NARCISSIST IN DISGUISE REAL RECOGNIZES REAL AND THE WOLVES CAN SMELL THE SICKNESS IN YOU SO LET'S GO DEEPER LET'S GO INTO THE BASEMENT OF YOUR OWN PSYCHOLOGY WE ARE GOING TO PERFORM AN EXORCISM OF YOUR WEAKNESS BECAUSE THE ONLY WAY TO BE SAFE FROM THE MONSTERS IS TO RECOGNIZE THE MONSTER IN THE MIRROR AND PUT A LEASH ON IT MACHIAVELLI WROTE A WISE PRINCE SHOULD RELY ON WHAT IS IN HIS OWN CONTROL NOT ON WHAT IS IN THE CONTROL OF OTHERS YOUR CHARACTER IS THE ONLY THING YOU CONTROL SO HOW DO YOU FIX THE GLITCHES HOW DO YOU ENSURE THAT YOU ARE NOT THE ONE FAILING THE TEST LET'S GO BACK TO THE THREE REVELATIONS AND FLIP THEM ONE MASTERING THE NO THE SOVEREIGN MINDSET WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU NO WATCH YOUR REACTION IF YOU FEEL ANGER CATCH IT THAT ANGER IS YOUR EGO SCREAMING I AM NOT IMPORTANT IT IS A CHILD'S TANTRUM TO BE A HIGH VALUE MAN YOU MUST REACH A STATE OF INTERNAL ABUNDANCE WHERE A NO FROM THE WORLD MEANS NOTHING NO IS JUST REDIRECTION NO IS PROTECTION WHEN YOU ACCEPT A DENIAL WITH TOTAL GRACE WITH A GENUINE SMILE YOU CONFUSE THE HELL OUT OF PEOPLE THEY EXPECT YOU TO PUSH THEY EXPECT YOU TO BEG THEY EXPECT YOU TO GET MAD WHEN YOU SAY I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY NO WORRIES AND YOU MEAN IT YOU SIGNAL POWER YOU SIGNAL THAT YOU HAVE OPTIONS YOU SIGNAL THAT YOU ARE NOT DESPERATE DESPERATION SMELLS LIKE ROT DETACHMENT SMELLS LIKE POWER PRACTICE THIS THE NEXT TIME YOU ARE REJECTED BY A GIRL BY A CLIENT BY A FRIEND FORCE YOUR BODY TO RELAX FORCE YOUR FACE TO REMAIN OPEN KILL THE TYRANT IN THE NURSERY BECOME THE KING ON THE THRONE THE KING DOES NOT BEG TWO MASTERING THE ENVY THE ALCHEMIST MINDSET ENVY IS ENERGY IT IS JUST ENERGY MOVING IN THE WRONG DIRECTION WHEN YOU FEEL ENVY IT IS BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE THAT THE SUPPLY OF SUCCESS IS LIMITED YOU BELIEVE THAT IF THEY EAT YOU STARVE THIS IS THE SCARCITY MINDSET IT IS THE MINDSET OF THE PEASANT THE ABUNDANCE MINDSET REALIZES THAT ANOTHER PERSON'S SUCCESS IS PROOF THAT IT IS POSSIBLE IF THEY CAN DO IT THE PHYSICS OF THE UNIVERSE ALLOW IT WHEN YOU FEEL THAT PANG OF JEALOUSY TRANSMUTE IT TURN IT INTO FUEL DO NOT FAKE THE CELEBRATION USE THE CELEBRATION GET CLOSE TO THE WINNER STUDY THEM ABSORB THEIR FREQUENCY IF YOU RESENT THEM YOU PUSH THEIR KNOWLEDGE AWAY IF YOU APPLAUD THEM YOU OPEN THE DOOR TO LEARN FROM THEM MACHIAVELLI KNEW THAT YOU KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER BUT THE OUTLIER KNOWS YOU MAKE THE WINNERS YOUR FRIENDS SO YOU CAN BECOME ONE OF THEM DO NOT BE THE SMILING SABOTEUR BE THE STRATEGIC ALLY IT PAYS BETTER THREE MASTERING THE POWER THE STOIC LEADER AND FINALLY THE IMPUNITY FACTOR WHEN YOU HAVE POWER BE MERCIFUL NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE NICE BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE DISCIPLINED CRUELTY IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS IT IS A SIGN THAT YOU NEED TO HURT OTHERS TO FEEL BIG THE MAN WHO IS TRULY BIG THE MAN WHO IS TRULY DANGEROUS DOES NOT NEED TO REMIND THE WAITER WHO IS IN CHARGE HE KNOWS THE WAITER KNOWS THE ROOM KNOWS WHEN YOU TREAT THE LOWEST PERSON IN THE ROOM WITH THE SAME RESPECT AS THE HIGHEST PERSON YOU ARE NOT BEING A SAINT YOU ARE BEING A STRATEGIST YOU ARE BUILDING A REPUTATION THAT YOU ARE UNSHAKABLE YOU ARE SHOWING THAT YOUR CHARACTER IS CONSTANT NOT VARIABLE PEOPLE TRUST CONSTANTS THEY FEAR VARIABLES BE THE CONSTANT WHEN YOU HAVE THE RING OF GYGES WHEN YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH IT CHOOSE HONOR NOT FOR THEM FOR YOU BECAUSE EVERY TIME YOU CHOOSE THE LOW ROAD YOU DEGRADE YOUR OWN SELF IMAGE YOU TELL YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS I AM A LOW VALUE PERSON AND YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS WILL BELIEVE YOU AND IT WILL SABOTAGE YOU BE NOBLE IN THE DARK THAT IS HOW YOU SHINE IN THE LIGHT SO WHERE DOES THIS LEAVE US IT LEAVES US WITH X RAY VISION YOU NOW HAVE THE TOOLS TO SCAN THE ROOM YOU CAN SEE THE MICRO DENIAL YOU CAN SEE THE THE SILENT FUNERAL YOU CAN SEE THE IMPUNITY FACTOR YOU ARE NO LONGER WALKING BLIND THROUGH A FOREST OF PREDATORS YOU HAVE A MAP BUT WITH THIS VISION COMES A RESPONSIBILITY THE RESPONSIBILITY OF SELECTION YOU ARE THE CURATOR OF YOUR OWN LIFE MACHIAVELLI SAID THE FIRST METHOD FOR ESTIMATING THE INTELLIGENCE OF A RULER IS TO LOOK AT THE MEN HE HAS AROUND HIM LOOK AROUND YOU ARE YOU SURROUNDED BY TYRANTS SABOTEURS AND SADISTS IF YOU ARE THAT IS NOT THEIR FAULT THAT IS YOUR FAULT YOU LET THEM IN YOU KEPT THEM THERE YOU IGNORED THE SIGNS TODAY THE IGNORANCE ENDS TODAY YOU START THE PURGE IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE DRAMATIC YOU DON'T HAVE TO BURN BRIDGES WITH NAPALM JUST START CLOSING THE GATES STOP FEEDING THE ENERGY VAMPIRES STOP CONFIDING IN THE ENVIOUS STOP TRUSTING THE CRUEL AND IN THE EMPTY SPACE THAT THEY LEAVE BEHIND INVITE THE RARE ONES THE ONES WHO RESPECT YOUR NO THE ONES WHO CHEER FOR YOUR WINS THE ONES WHO ARE KIND WHEN THEY DON'T HAVE TO BE THEY EXIST THEY ARE RARE LIKE DIAMONDS BUT YOU WILL NEVER FIND THEM IF YOUR HANDS ARE FULL OF COAL DROP THE COAL WALK AWAY FROM THE HEAT OF THE DRAMA AND STEP INTO THE COLD CLARITY OF THE TRUTH IT IS LONELY AT FIRST THE OUTLIER PATH IS ALWAYS LONELY THE SHEEP ARE IN THE HERD THE WOLF IS ON THE HILL BUT THE VIEW FROM THE HILL IS BETTER AND THE AIR IS CLEANER AND YOU ARE FREE BUT BE CAREFUL BECAUSE AS YOU BEGIN TO SEE THESE TRAITS IN OTHERS AND AS YOU BEGIN TO PURGE THEM FROM YOURSELF YOU WILL CHANGE YOU WILL BECOME QUIETER YOU WILL BECOME SHARPER YOU WILL BECOME HARDER TO MANIPULATE AND PEOPLE WILL NOTICE THE MANIPULATORS WILL SENSE THAT THEIR OLD TRICKS DON'T WORK ON YOU ANYMORE THE BUTTONS THEY USED TO PUSH ARE DISCONNECTED AND THEY WILL GET ANGRY THEY WILL CALL YOU COLD THEY WILL CALL YOU CHANGED THEY WILL TRY TO GASLIGHT YOU BACK INTO SUBMISSION THIS IS THE FINAL TEST WHEN THE WORLD TRIES TO PULL YOU BACK INTO THE MUD WILL YOU SLIDE OR WILL YOU STAND THERE IS A SPECIFIC TECHNIQUE A MACHIAVELLIAN COUNTERMOVE TO DEAL WITH THE BACKLASH OF YOUR OWN EVOLUTION IT IS CALLED THE GREY ROCK METHOD BUT APPLIED WITH MILITARY PRECISION BUT THAT THAT IS A WEAPON FOR ANOTHER TIME FOR NOW WATCH THE EYES WATCH THE REACTION WATCH THE POWER THE TRUTH IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU OPEN YOUR EYES IF THIS VIDEO FELT LIKE A MIRROR YOU WEREN'T READY TO LOOK INTO UNDERSTAND THIS I AM BARELY SCRATCHING THE SURFACE THIS IS THE DIAGNOSIS THE CURE IS MUCH DARKER THERE ARE STRATEGIES OF INFLUENCE DEFENSE AND PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE THAT I CANNOT SHARE ON THE PUBLIC CHANNEL THE ALGORITHM IS DESIGNED TO PROTECT THE SHEEP NOT ARM THE WOLVES THE UNSENSORED RAW TACTICAL APPLICATIONS OF DARK PSYCHOLOGY EXIST BEHIND THE JOIN BUTTON IF YOU ARE TIRED OF THE THEORY AND YOU WANT THE WEAPON IF YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW TO DISMANTLE THE MANIPULATOR NOT JUST SPOT THEM CLICK THE JOIN BUTTON STEP INTO THE ARCHITECT LEVEL WE DIVE INTO THE VOID WHERE OTHERS ARE AFRAID TO LOOK SUBSCRIBE IF YOU ARE READY TO WAKE UP JOIN IF YOU ARE READY TO RULE SEE YOU IN THE SHADOWS