2 Years of Therapy in 2 Minutes

[0:00]me and Chiquita, we're going to give you two years of therapy in about two minutes. Every pattern that you feel stuck with as an adult or you feel like you can't break is because there's a scared little kid inside of you who created it to survive. I know because I let the scared little kid in me run most of my adult life. And the reason you push people away, I'm talking about healthy people, loving people, and you self- sabotage a relationship is because as a kid, you learned that love wasn't safe for whatever reason. And the reason you can't stop working all the time, you have to overperform, you're burnt out, it's because there's a kid inside of you that learned that your self- worth came from performance and accomplishment. And the reason you lose it over the smallest things or get triggered, is because there's a kid inside of you who never felt heard or seen. Is this sounding like a pattern for you? Because it sounded like one for me. None of these patterns are actually weakness. They were extremely smart strategies that you developed when you were a kid because they helped you survive. They kept you safe at 5, 6, 7 or 8. They're just not serving you anymore at 20, 30, 50, 60. It's not serving you and it's time to let it go. Because the most healing thing that you can do right now is look yourself in the mirror and speak to that little kid, that little kid inside. And all you have to do is say to him or her, I got you now. I got you now. You don't have to protect us anymore. Because I got you. I got us. That's not soft, that's not weak. That will be the most challenging thing you ever do. And the most rewarding thing you will ever do, because that little kid inside of you deserves, deserves to feel safe now.