Dangerously Confident People Do These 6 Things #success #confidence

[0:00]How to become dangerously confident. This is going to be a good one. Hear me out. How confident you are is how competent you are. But the problem is you can't quantify competence, right? No, actually you can't. And by the time you finish this video, you know where you're weak and how to fix it and become so damn confident. So if this is something you'd like to learn today, save this video, but watch it now, okay? Don't watch it later because I know you will. So here's how I think about it. You've got six realms of competence, skills, physical, mental, social, spiritual, financial. Okay, let me break it down. First, skillfully competent. Do you have valuable skills? If no, build them. Pick one and go deep for six months. Public speaking, video editing, graphic design, sales, copywriting, funnel design, coding. These are skills the market actually pays for. Your skills are only valuable if they are generating something. Money, opportunities, or leverage. Second, physically competent. You don't need apps, but you need to look good. And I'm going to say something controversial. If you're overweight, it signals one thing to the whole world, lack of discipline. Before you come at me, I'm not body shaming. I'm being real with you. Your body is a reflection of your habits. If you can't control your body, people assume that you can't control anything else either. Even if you have underlying health issues, all people can see is your body. But here's the flip side. You take care of your body. Your mental clarity goes up. Your confidence goes up. Your energy goes up. Third, mentally competent. Think about mental resilience. Can you handle pressure without breaking? Can you take a loss in life and keep going? Can you sit with discomfort and not fold? Here's how you know if you're mentally strong. When shit happens to you, do you normally vent or do you normally think of how to adapt? If you think of how to adapt, you are mentally stronger than the others. Fourth, socially competent. Do you know how to make friends? Real friends or allies? Because here's the thing, you need friends. And there are only three types of friends you need in life. Number one, someone who's ahead of you. Someone who makes you uncomfortable because they are operating at a level you're not at yet. Iron sharpens iron. Two, people on the same path as you. You celebrate wins together, you vent together, you grow together. These are your day ones. Three, people who genuinely want to see you win. Not jealous, not competitive, just rooting for you. These are rare, hold on to them. Fifth, spiritually competent. This is nothing about religion. It's knowing who you are when no one is watching. What do you stand for? What's your compass when everything falls apart? What matters to you beyond money, status and valid? Figure out your values. What would you defend even if it costs you something? Lastly, financially competent. Let me be real. When you have more money, you have more confidence. You walk different, you talk different, you move different. But here's what most people don't realize. If you handle the first five steps I just talked about, skills, physical, mental, social, spiritual, I promise you the money will come because people pay for competence. They pay for people who show up, who execute, who have their life together. If you're sharp in those parts, the financial part handles itself. Yep. So these are six realms of competence. If you just learn to be competent in all of them, you will be dangerously confident.