[0:00]Dear girls, yeh video specifically tumhare liye hai. Tum apni life mein kahan pe ho? Kuch goals achieve karne hain, kya-kya cheezein face kar rahe ho? Shaadi ka pressure hai, shaadi ho chuki hai, in-laws support nahi karte hain.
[0:10]Life mein koi goal hain, kuch bhi kaam nahi ho pa raha hai, cheezein un sab cheezon ke bare mein hum discuss karenge. Ek toh jiske paas mein ladki ke paas mein aaj ke time pe time hai ki abhi shaadi ka koi pressure nahi hai.
[0:20]Jiske upar shaadi ka pressure hai woh. Teesra jisski shaadi ho chuki hai. Inn teeno type ki ladkiyon ke bare mein aaj hum is video ke andar discussion karenge.
[0:29]And ye video khatam hoga aur tum khud bol ke jaogi ki bhaiya thank you, tumhari mehrbani, ab main apni zindagi mein kaam karna start karungi.
[0:34]Main tumse woh har ek cheez ye video ke andar discuss karunga ki tumhare paas mein aaj kitna time tum manage kar sakte ho, time kaise nikala ja sakta hai.
[0:41]Jitna time hai usmein kaam khud se kaise karwaya ja sakta hai? Yeh sab cheezein ye video jahan pe khatam hogi, bahut satisfying end pe khatam hogi aur agar mere bhai tum mein se koi ye video dekh raha hai, toh bhai aa, sun ye video aur ye jitne bhi bahane ye ladkiyan de rahi hain jiske bare mein hum yahan discuss karenge.
[0:57]Woh un bahano se khud ki life ko correlate karna ki woh bahane tu kahan kahan pe apni life mein kis mod pe de raha hai aur kahan pe tujhe ab inse bach ke apni zindagi mein kaam karna chahiye.
[1:06]Chalo ji, without any delay, let's get into the video. Hello ji, it's your boy Dr. Pankaj Verma, veterinary surgeon and a self-made man bhai.
[1:12]Sabse pehle, you have to navigate your life ki tum life mein actual mein ho kis point pe, kahan kya cheezein chal rahi hain. Tumhara ye jo khopdi mein dimag hai, is dimag ke charon taraf kitna garbage hai, kitna kachra, kitni bhassad phaili hui hai, kitna raita faila hua hai.
[1:28]Yeh kya-kya cheezein hain, inke bare mein ye conversation khud se aaram se baith ke kari jaaye.
[1:33]Aur uske saath mein ki ab ye kis tareeke se sameta ja sakta hai, mai help karunga, aaram se suno. Aur along with this, tumhe lagta hai ki tumne life ka bahut time kharab kar diya.
[1:40]Ab energy nahi hai, ab kaam karne baithti ho, padhne baithti ho toh nahi ho paata, himmat nahi juta paati ho, sabse pehla point iske saath mein yahan yeh hai ki agar tumhe ya mujhe 5:00 baje uthna tha,
[1:50]5:00 baje uthne ki bajaye meri aankh khuli hai 9:00 baje. 9:00 baje ab aankh khulte hi ya toh main ye regret karne lag jaaun zindagi ke subah uthne se pehle 4 ghante barbaad, ab pura din barbaad, main barbaad rahungi.
[2:01]Ya phir main ye sochun ki yaar oho, 4 ghante late utha hoon, koi baat nahi, aaj raat ko 2 ghante late jagenge aur zyada padhai karenge. Kal subah 1 ghanta jaldi jagenge aur zyada padhai karenge.
[2:10]Is tarike se agar maine meri zindagi ka 1 saal, 2, 5 saal agar kharab kiya hai toh agle 5 saal mein is tarike se pichhle 5 saal aur aane wale 5 saal cover kar sakta hoon.
[2:19]Toh ye regret, ye afsos karna band karo ki tumne tumhari zindagi ka time barbaad kar diya, ek baat. Doosri baat, tumhari zindagi mein aaj ke time pe jitna raita faila pada hai,
[2:28]Usako kaise sameta ja sakta hai? Kya conversations khud se kari ja sakti hain? Kya logon se help maangi ja sakti hai? Kyunki mere sapnon ke liye logon se meethi-meethi aawaz mein baat main karunga.
[2:38]Ki bhai, please yaar, thoda sa favor kar de ki haan ji, haan ji sunte ho, aisa thoda sa favor kar do, aisa chahiye. In-laws se meethi-meethi baatein karni padengi, ek baat.
[2:47]Doosri baat, ye thoda sa aage main proper points clear out karunga. Ab iske saath mein, tumhare paas mein poora din, ek baar aaram se baith ke do-teen din socho ki kitna time on an average hota hai, 2 ghante, 4 ghante, 6 ghante.
[2:57]Aur kitna time tu manage kar sakti ho? Kahan-kahan pe time barbaad ho raha hai? Kahan-kahan pe aisi unnecessarily cheez kari ja rahi hain, jinko agar nahi kiya jayega toh time bach jayega.
[3:07]For example, agar in-laws tang nahi adate hain ya tumhare ko koi issue nahi hai, ek din ghar pe safai nahi hogi toh koi baat nahi. Agar subah ke bartan shaam tak nahi dhulenge toh bhi koi dikkat nahi hai, manage ho jayega.
[3:17]Aisa jitna bhi time tum apni life mein nikal sakti ho, us time ko nikalne ke bare mein sochna hai jitna zyada ho sake. For example, mere liye kya hai ki mujhe mere kitchen mein ek tube light lagani thi, badi tube light.
[3:27]Toh jitne din usse kaam chal raha tha, jiss din tak deadline nahi aayi, uss din tak woh latakta raha. And priority meri aaj ke time pe meri hustle hai ki mere ko meri life mein mere jo goals hain na, un goals pe mujhe kaam karna hai.
[3:38]Toh mujhe ye goals sambhalne hain. Baaki saari cheezein kari jayengi baad mein. Ek baar khud ki stability pe dhyan diya jayega.
[3:45]Aur ye stability ab tumhe sochna hai ki ab ye sab cheezein sochne ke baad mein aaj meri life ka goal kya hai?
[3:52]Ab isko practically is tarike se samjhna ki meri life ka goal agar UPSC crack karna hai ya mera life ka koi bahut bada goal hai, toh aaj main apni real life ki situation ke saath mein us goal ko compare karunga ki yaar kya ye goal poora kiya ja sakta hai?
[4:06]Isko practically is tarike se samjho ki kuch din pehle ek one-on-one session pe ek ladki aayi and he main usse poocha, maine kaha behn, ek baat bata, kya tu UPSC clear kar sakti hai?
[4:13]Boli haan kar sakti hoon sir. Maine kaha, kyun, aisa tujhe kyun lagta hai? He said ki kyunki mere se bhi bahut bahut kharab situations mein log hain, jab woh kar jaate hain toh main bhi kar jaungi.
[4:21]Maine kaha, behn, ek baat batata hoon tujhe, reality samajh, main tere ko demotivate nahi kar raha hoon 1% bhi, main tujhe sirf aware kar raha hoon ki jo log bahut zyada buri conditions mein bhi bade-bade exams clear kar jaate hain, ek baat toh unhone choose kar rakhi hoti hai woh life.
[4:34]Tune ye life choose nahi kari hai, tere pe thopi gayi hai, tere in-laws tujhe pareshan karte hain, tera husband tere ko favor nahi karta, koi support system nahi hai tere paas mein. Unnecessarily jab tu baith ke padhti hai, tere ko pata nahi kya-kya, kitni baatein sunni pad jaati hain.
[4:47]Aur jis bachhe ki tu jis ladka ladki ki tu baat kar rahi hai na ki woh bahut buri condition mein bhi padh-likh ke apni zindagi mein kuch kar jayega, woh agar wahan apne table chair pe apne niche farsh pe baith ke padh raha hai na toh usne bhookha reh ke padhna choose kar rakha hai, usne woh accept kar rakha hai.
[5:01]Tu chahe kitna hi accept kar le, tu apne din ke freely, independently 12, 15, 17 ghante nahi nikal sakti jab tere ko tere in-laws ki, teri family walon ki sunni padegi.
[5:13]Toh is tarike se practically kya kiya ja sakta hai uske bare mein khud ke saath mein ek discussion karne ke baad mein fir decide karo ki ab life mein karna kya hai.
[5:20]Agar tumhe ye discussion ke baad mein realize hota hai ki nahi yaar, mera goal zyada bada hai aur tumhe nahi samajh mein aata toh do yourself a favor, description ke andar aapko ek link milega, wahan se apne liye ek slot book karo and let's have a most productive conversation jismein hum aapki life ko navigate karenge.
[5:33]Otherwise, on another side, what you can think, what you can, how you can help yourself on your end ya fir apne behalf pe ki yaar aaj ke time pe sabse pehle apne liye ek basic stability gain kar leti hoon.
[5:44]For example, ye stability aaj ke time pe mere liye meri full-time job hai, us job ke saath mein mere paas mein jitna time bach raha hai.
[5:51]Aaj mere ko yahan pe koi bhadak karne ke liye koi insan nahi hai, mujhe koi bolega na tere ko aisa karna hai, waisa karna hai, kas ke laat marunga, bolunga main meri zindagi khud se chala sakta hoon, mere finances khud manage kar raha hoon.
[6:01]Koi baat nahi. Main, main meri zindagi ke liye main yaar, mere ko apni zindagi mein khud ki nazron mein afsos nahi dekhna hai. Toh is wajah se main kisi ki nahi sun sakta.
[6:07]Haa, main kisi ka bura nahi karunga. Main sirf apna favor apne aap ko khush rakhne ke liye kar raha hoon. Agar mera parivar, mere chahne wale mujhe khush dekh ke raazi nahi hai toh aisa parivar, aise chahne wale mujhe chahiye nahi hai.
[6:20]Ye chahiye nahi hai ka matlab ye nahi hai ki tum unko chhod doge. Matlab baat ye hai ki apne favor ke liye thoda sa logon ke saath mein meetha ban-ban ke conversations aapko karni padengi.
[6:31]Chalo, ye conversations ki discussion hum yahin kar lete hain, all though karni ye aage chal ke thi. For example, tumhare ko na 2, 4, 5 log hain tumhari life mein sirf pareshan karte hain, dukh ke alawa, pareshani ke alawa kuch nahi dete hain.
[6:39]Toh apne ko na bahut-bahut extreme matlabi aur harami insan banna hai ki main na meri cheezon ke liye matlabi hoon.
[6:45]Agar tu mere ko pareshan karega, tu kuch bhi karega na, toh main tere saath mein bahut meethi-meethi ban ke apna kaam nikalwa lungi aur jis din mera kaam nikal gaya na, uss din tere pichhwade pe kas ke laat marungi.
[6:56]Yeh gussa aaj jitna pyar se tere saath mein deal karungi, jitna apna gussa control karke tere saath mein deal karungi, uss gusse ko palungi apne andar aur ek din istemal karungi, ek din tujhe bataungi ki is din ke liye aaj tak tere se meethi bol rahi thi, tune bahut pareshan kiya mujhe.
[7:10]Uss din tere pichhwade pe kas ke laat marungi, is din ka intezar karna, ye gussa apne andar palna hai.
[7:16]Ye energy jo tumhare andar hai na, ye energy ya toh tum ro ke negative feelings ke andar ya khud ko low feel karwa ke nikal sakte ho.
[7:22]Jo energy tumhare kaam ya padhai mein lagni chahiye, woh energy tum idhar udhar bilkul bhi na toh aankhon se aansu ki form mein ya emotions mein, gusse mein aa ke nahi nikalni hai.
[7:32]Is energy ko power bana ke use karna hai ki kisi na kisi ko jo aaj mujhe pareshan kar raha hai na, us haramzade ko ya us haramzadi ko jawab dungi.
[7:39]Ab, along with this, agar ye conversation hone ke baad mein ya ye video poori khatam hone ke baad mein tumhare paas mein bahane hain ki mera relationship achha nahi hai, mere parents saath nahi dete hain,
[7:47]Main mind mein aisa sochti rehti hoon ya phir mere ko periods aa jaate hain, main padh nahi pati hoon, bahut zyada heavy rehta hai sab kuch. Jitni bhi cheezein ya tumne bahut sara time kharab kar diya, uska hamesha regret rehta hai.
[7:56]Toh behn, ek kaam kar, tu meri zindagi mein is afsos mein hi reh. Kuch mat kar sirf baith ke soch aur regret kar. Marti marti ye poori zindagi afsos mein mare hue ek mare hue soul ki tarah kaat ke chali jaiyo aur death bed pe afsos double, triple, 10X kar liyo, uske baad mein nikal jaiyo yahan se.
[8:12]Otherwise, himmat juta. Tere andar aaj subah uthne ke baad mein jitni 100 energy hai, usmein se jitni energy mandatory tere ko jahan-jahan lagani zaroori hain, jiske bina kaam nahi chal sakta, woh lagane ke baad mein tere andar 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 kuch toh energy bach rahi hogi.
[8:26]Uss energy ke hisab se ek baar decide kar ki tu apne aap ko stabilize kis tarike se kar sakti hai ya tere paas mein jitni sari responsibilities hain unke liye tu paisa kama ke khud ko ek itna basic stable karke,
[8:38]Apne liye un responsibilities ko delegate kaise kar sakti hai. For example, mere paas mein cook aata hai, khana peena woh banata hai mera sara ka sara. Toh woh responsibility maine usko paisa de ke delegate kar rakhi hai.
[8:47]Ab badle mein mere paas mein jo har roz ek ghante ka time hota hai na, main usse aane wale time mein aaj toh kya pata us time ki bahut achhi return nahi aa rahi, aane wale time mein us time ki bahut achhi return aayegi, har roz ek-ek ghanta karke accumulate ho raha hai.
[8:58]Is tarike se apne aap ko basic financially stable bana, ye tere liye time bhi kharid ke dega, tu apne liye cheezein kar payegi, tu apne liye jo tujhe karna hoga, kharidna hoga, productivity ko le ke kuch bhi karna hoga, tu kar payegi.
[9:09]Along with this ye tere andar confidence build karega aur life mein ultimately jab paisa aayega, bahut saari problems sudhrengi, sambhlenngi, tu independent banegi.
[9:18]For example, aaj agar mere paas mein main thoda bahut paisa kama raha hoon, yahan table ke niche ek heater laga hua hai, wahan ek air conditioner laga hua hai.
[9:25]Ye isliye laga hua hai ki yahan main baith ke jab kaam karu na, mujhe garmi, sardi, thand, pyaas, bhook kuch nahi lage, sab kuch har ek cheez ka arrangement yahan is workspace mein maine mere kaam karne ke liye kar rakha hai.
[9:35]Agar tu abhi bhi bahane degi, toh behn tu zindagi bhar kapde dho, zindagi bhar isi chaar diwari ke andar mar, zindagi bhar sochti rehna zindagi mein kuch karna tha, bahut bada karna tha.
[9:44]Aaj tu khud ke liye stable nahi hai, khud ki zindagi ko khud manage nahi kar pa rahi hai, kal ko tere bachhe honge, husband hoga, sab kuch hoga, uss time pe tu apna kuch bhi manage nahi kar payegi.
[9:55]Kyunki sabse pehla dhokha zindagi mein tune khud ke saath mein kiya hai, tune apni zindagi mein kaam karna chahiye tha, woh kaam tune kiya nahi hai.
[10:00]Agar tere se aaj main poochun ki behn tune subah uthne se le ke ab tak kya kaam kiya? Kya scene raha? Kaisa raha? Kitna time barbaad kiya? Agar tere paas mein jawab sirf itna hai ki hmm, kuch kar nahi payi, mere ko aisa tha, waisa tha.
[10:11]Behn tu kuch kar payegi bhi nahi. Ye time nikal raha hai, nikal jayega. Piche mud ke dekhegi toh sirf afsos dikhai dega.
[10:18]Ab ek baar beech mein un ladkiyon ke liye discuss karte hain, jinke parents unko marriage ke liye force kar rahe hain ya aas paas mein koi bhi stable system unke paas mein nahi hai.
[10:26]Ab bahut zyada unstability hai life mein. Ye behn teri life hai, yahan se start ho ke yahan teri life khatam hogi. Yahan pe aaj tere ghar wale tujhe bol rahe hain shaadi kar le, ye kar le, woh kar le, sari bhassad hai zindagi ki.
[10:37]Aur ye yahan pe aa ke teri shaadi ho jayegi. Pata hai, ye toh life chal rahi hai, ye jo tujh pe life thopi ja rahi hai, woh toh tujhe jini hi jini padegi, kyunki aaj tere paas mein tera support system nahi hai.
[10:46]But, along with this, physically present hai tu ye life ko jine mein. Par mentally tujhe present hona hai yahan ek separate life jine mein.
[10:55]Ye life tere dimag mein hamesha chalegi ki tu is life ke liye kaam kar rahi hai, ye life tujhe yahan se start ho ke yahan kahin ya yahan kahin ya yahan kahin tujhe itna financially well ya itna financially stable banayegi ki tu bolegi ki Papa, shaadi nahi karungi.
[11:10]Tumse nahi pala ja raha hai, tumse nahi rakhi ja rahi hoon, toh mere expenses main khud manage kar sakti hoon, nahi hai tumhari zaroorat.
[11:17]Apne liye jab tak tum haq nahi mangoge, tab tak tumhe haq koi dega bhi nahi. Ye mere liye aisa tha ki mere ko na bachpan se engineering karni thi, mere father sahab ne bola meri bhi galtiyan rahi par chalo ultimately baat ye hui ki mere father sahab ne bola ki beta ya toh tu doctor banega ya toh kuch nahi karega.
[11:32]Galtiyan meri bhi thi bahut sari. Par pata hai main ultimately itna zyada confident ya apna stand main le nahi paya. Mujhe darr tha ki agar nahi stable hua toh doctor ban jaunga toh stability bahut zyada aa jaati hai.
[11:41]Toh is wajah se itna zyada stable ya capable insan uss time pe main nahi tha.
[11:47]Aaj agar koi mujhe bole ki bhai tere ko ye nahi, tere ko ye karna padega, main bata raha hoon, bawal kar dunga main khada.
[11:53]Ki uss time pe toh nahi tha main stable, uss time mein mere andar confidence nahi tha, aaj ban gaya hai confidence, aaj bana chuka hoon khud ko, aaj main khud se khud sab kuch manage kar sakta hoon.
[12:00]Toh is cheez ko accept karna ki aaj tum itne strong nahi ho. Aaj strong banne ki journey start kari ja rahi hai.
[12:07]Aaj se 6 mahine, 1 saal ke baad mein jo version tumhara nikal ke aayega na, woh strong version hoga, kyunki agle 6 mahine, 1 saal na tum ro rahi ho, na tum pareshan ho rahi ho, tumhe jo life thop rahi hai, accept kar rahi ho.
[12:15]Har insan ke aage meetha ban ke theek hai, koi baat nahi, okay ji, sir theek hai, thank you, koi baat nahi. Main aur ye apne andar gussa palna ki haramzade, aaj jitna pyar se baat kar rahi hoon, mujhe bilkul achha nahi lag raha.
[12:27]Tujhe jawab dungi ek din. Baat karungi ek din, aaj nahi kar sakti hoon baat, toh gussa pal rahi hoon.
[12:33]Jab tak tu is tarike se nahi in cheezon se deal karegi, tab tak tu is regret mein rahegi, zindagi mein barbaad rahegi. Aage chal ke main keh raha hoon ki aaj jitna tu dekh rahi hai, usse zyada 10x, 20, 50x tu apni zindagi mein barbadi, regret, afsos sab kuch dekhne wali hai.
[12:45]Toh is zindagi ke liye kaam karna start kariyo yahan se le ke yahan tak. By chance teri shaadi ho gayi hai aur tu is time period ke andar stabilize nahi hui hai.
[12:56]Toh shaadi hone ke baad mein bhi goal ye hona chahiye ki bhai kaam ek baar ke liye at least bare minimum khud ka kharcha, khud ki zindagi, khud ka survival afford karna hai.
[13:01]So that ki ye in-laws, ye husband jaisa bhi mile, main apne aap ko stabilize kar ke rakh paun. Ek baat.
[13:08]Doosri baat, jab ghar wale aapki shaadi ke liye aapko force kar rahe hain, kuch bhi cheezein chal rahi hain, toh you can have this conversation with these boys jo tumhare ko dikhaye ja rahe hain.
[13:16]Ki yaar suno, baat aise hai ki main aaj apni life mein yahan is stage pe hoon, do-teen-char saal mujhe meri life mein khud pe kaam karne ke liye chahiye.
[13:23]Toh aap apni life mein kya expect kar rahe ho, aap apni life mein mujhse kya demand karte ho, toh ek baar hum un sab cheezon ki conversation kar le.
[13:29]Main aapse agle teen-char saal ka support system demand kar rahi hoon. Agar aap mere liye woh support system ban sakte ho, toh hum isko aage move on kar sakte hain.
[13:36]Agar nahi ban sakte ho, toh fir mere ko dhundhna padega ki mere ko kis tarike se hamare is rishte ke liye mana karna hai.
[13:42]Ye conversation aisa toh hai nahi ki dhakke se shaadi kar di jayegi, but fir bhi agar dhakke se kar di jaye, toh behn tera stand toh tujhe hi lena padega.
[13:49]Main tere saath mein na ek bahut-bahut realistic mere kisi dur ke ek dost ki, dost bhi nahi, matlab mere ek hota tha, main nahi bol sakta kaun hai, kaisa hai, baat pahuchegi toh dikkat hogi, uski story hai.
[13:59]Ye na ek koi ladki ke saath mein iski love marriage ho gayi is ladke ki, ye ladka har nasha karta hai, har nasha.
[14:04]And is ladki ne ghar se bahut dhakka karke marriage kari hai, marriage karne ke baad mein iske jo ladke ke parents hain, isko dahej ke liye taana marte hain.
[14:15]Ye ladka full nashe karta hai, shaadi se pehle is ladki ko nahi pata tha, pyar mein aa gayi. And ye ladka nashe kar-kar ke, main keh raha hoon, is ladki ki zindagi itni kutte jaisi bana rakhi hai.
[14:24]Is ladke ko poore sharir pe aise kharish ho rakhi hai, aise karta rehta hai. Par fir bhi nashe kar-kar ke room mein uske saath mein woh poora din gadho ki tarah sex karta hai.
[14:32]Zindagi main bol raha hoon, narak se bhi ghatiya bana rakhi hai. Is ladki ne 2 saal liye, aaram se royi nahi kabhi, bahut bas ghut-ghut ke jeeti rahi, padhti rahi jab-jab time milta tha, apne aap ka saath diya ki padhti rahi, padhti rahi.
[14:43]2 saal ke baad mein, bahut baar ye ladki apne ghar wapas gayi hai, bahut pareshaniyan dekhi hain. Uske baad mein ye lag gayi hai, ab government job lag gayi hai, lecturer lag gayi hai bhai.
[14:53]Ye bahut achhi city ke andar. Ab is ladke ko realize hua ki are yaar, meri jo wife thi na, woh toh sarkari naukri lag gayi hai, 60-70-80 hazar rupaye mahine ke kamaegi.
[15:02]Meetha ban ke usne call kiya ki hello, yaar aayegi kya mere paas mein, kya kar rahi hai, kaise hai? Is ladki ne jawab diya, let her ladke ka naam Rahul, agar aaj ke baad mujhe phone kar diya, thane mein de dungi complaint, police station mein de dungi complaint.
[15:15]Doosri baat, mujhe Rahul naam se hi nafrat hai, mere aage naam nahi aana chahiye zindagi bhar tera. And she is having a great life now bhai.
[15:22]Ye jo story maine tumhare ko 30-40 second mein bata di hai, ye us ladki ke liye bahut painful thi, bahut zyada painful.
[15:28]And ye story ko sun ke dekh ke main khud inspire hua ki yaar, kisi ke andar zindagi mein kuch karne ki aag kitni zyada ho sakti hai.
[15:37]Aur abhi bhi itni sari conversations hamari hone ke baad mein bhi, tum agar himmat nahi juta pa rahi ho ki kaam karna hai, kis tarike se karungi, kis tarike se manage karungi, toh behn tu ek kaam kar, tu roti reh, afsos mein mariyo.
[15:48]Main main khud bol raha hoon tere ko intentionally ki tu ro aur tu afsos mein hi marne ke layak hai, kyunki zindagi jo chah rahi hai, uske liye kaam tu kar nahi pa rahi hai.
[15:56]Zindagi jo teri hai, woh tujhse accept ho nahi pa rahi hai, tu atack ke baithi hai beech mein. Toh behn beech mein toh tu zindagi bhar tadfegi aur pareshan hi hogi.
[16:05]Mehnat karni padegi. Jab tak tu mehnat nahi karegi, tu kitni bhi videos dekh le, kitna kuch life mein kuch bhi kar le.
[16:13]Main keh raha hoon, tu jab tak tere paas mein raat ko sone se pehle is sawal ka jawab nahi hai na ki maine aaj sone se pehle itni mehnat kari hai, is mehnat se zyada toh mara ja sakta tha, par padha nahi ja sakta tha.
[16:24]Toh behn, agle aane wale 2, 3, 4 saal, 5 saal ke andar, see you on the top someday, barabar wali kursi mein baithhegi and kabhi milenge.
[16:31]Doosri cheez, ye jitni bhi cheezein tum social media pe content dekhoge motivational videos ki 21 din mein habit form ho jaati hai, aapko is tarike se to-do list banani chahiye, aisa waisa karna chahiye, ghanta kuch kaam nahi karta.
[16:42]Kaam karti hai toh sirf ek cheez raat ko sone se pehle woh khayal ki maine aaj poore din mein kitna kaam kiya, kya meri mehnat mein 1% bhi kami thi.
[16:51]Agar thi toh kal kaise dur ki jayegi woh kami, agar nahi thi toh theek hai, kal aur zyada isi din ko productively kis tarike se utilize kiya ja sakta hai, kis tarike se aur zyada achhe se kaam kiya ja sakta hai.
[17:03]Is tarike ke thought processes, bahane kam dena behn. Zindagi hard hai, aasan hoti toh har koi apni zindagi mein karke baitha hota.
[17:09]Haq apne aap ghar pe koi aa ke de ke nahi jayega. Majboor, lachar aur gareeb insan ka is duniya mein koi nahi hota, sirf struggle hota hai majboor aur lachar aur gareeb insan ka.
[17:19]Toh struggle kar, mehnat kar, apni zindagi mein bana apne liye kuch na kuch. It's your boy Dr. Pankaj Verma, also known as Civilized Ladka, milte hain agli kisi mast si video ke andar.
[17:25]Till that time bye-bye take care, keep working on dreams. One-on-one session ka, vlog channel ka aur YouTube ki membership ka link niche description ke andar hai.
[17:33]Inn teeno mein se tum kuch bhi choose kar lo apne liye, itna zyada extremely productive, itna zyada extremely rewarding tumhare liye rehne wala hai.
[17:40]Vlog channel subscribe karne ka kuch paisa nahi lag raha, kis tarike se main neende haram kar-kar ke kaam kar raha hoon apni zindagi mein, kis tarike se maine aaj tak apne aap ko banaya hai.
[17:47]Tum bhi apne goals ko achieve karne ki journey mere saath mein continue karna chahte ho toh vlog channel ko subscribe karo. One-on-one session agar tum raita itna fail gaya hai tumhari zindagi ke andar, nahi samajh mein aa raha sametne mein nahi aa raha hai.
[17:54]Do yourself a favor, description ke andar ek one-on-one session ka link hai, wahan se ek slot book karo and let's have a most productive conversation of your life. Membership mein main deeper insights de raha hoon ki kis tarike se main meri diary ke andar conversations karta hoon, kis tarike se manifest karta hoon, vision board and ye sab cheezon ki baatein hain.
[18:09]Theek hai ji. Meri behn, matlabi ban. Zindagi mein kaam kar. Bahane kam, kaam zyada, sir niche, kaam upar, feelings ka button band, kaam chalu. As always, milte hain agli kisi mast si video ke andar. Till the time bye-bye, take care, keep working on dreams.
