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[0:00]Please don't suffocate the people you love in the name of love. When we love somebody, I know it is impossible to not expect from that, but please they are not your dummies. When we say that we love this person, we expect that person to lead his entire life according to us. That is not the definition of love. That is a controlling nature of the one who says that I love the other person. You have your brain, that person has his brain. He would react to the situations as he would feel. And we become angry that why you didn't react to that situation as I wanted. He will not react to the situation as you wanted because he is not you. Don't expect a fish to fly. If you love that person, then you would just let that person be. You would appreciate the similarities but respect the differences. Don't try to make the other person a dummy to your actions. He's not doing one thing which you want doesn't mean that that person doesn't love you. Stop making your life crazy and the one whom you call that you love him crazier. Why when we become together, we want that person to be a person which we want. We want to recreate a new person from that original person. This is not right. Let that person be in his original mode. Always remember you fell in love with that person because he was the certain way.