understanding each other’s nature is essential.

[0:00]Men don't want sex, ladies. They just don't. They don't want sex, they need sex. You don't want it, you need it. It's an absolute necessity for men. The problem is he doesn't want to have to beg for it. He doesn't want to always feel responsible to initiate sex and intimacy. And here's how a man deals with rejection. The first time you reject him, it's like, okay, no problem. The second time you reject him, he stops trying. The third time you reject him, he's no longer interested, and he literally disconnects. He turns distant, he turns cold, he'll climb in the bed, he'll watch a little bit of TV at night, turn his back to you and go to sleep. And he's angry about it. He's frustrated about it. He's disappointed that he has to fight for something that God told him he was owed and due. Because sex for men isn't just physical. It's how he experiences connection. It's how he experiences acceptance. It's how he experiences affirmation and closeness. Men become emotional once they physically connect. Women need to feel emotionally connected first, then they want to be physical.