[0:00]What's going on, YouTube? Welcome back to the channel. Today's topic: How to make your ex miss you badly. Even though they have said that they do not care about you. Now, today's topic has everything to do with not only human nature, but the laws of economics. And what are we talking about specifically? The law of demand and supply. And at a very simple, baseline level, the law simply states that when supply of any good or services far exceeds the demand, then the price tends to drop. Okay, so to put that simply, whenever there's a lot of a certain item and not a lot of people need or want that item, then the price has to go down to match the demand to where more people are willing to pay only a little bit amount of money or resources to get this item. Okay? Now, what's interesting about this law of demand and supply is that not only does it apply as far as goods and services, it applies very much so to relationships and breakups. Now think about the end of your relationship. Your ex likely walked away abruptly. And so what that means, regardless of what they told you, is that they do not value the relationship.
[1:35]For whatever reason, they don't value it like they once did in the past. And so everything that you're supplying them with is overabundant because to them, the price of staying with you is so high that they're not even willing to do so. Okay? So, their demand for you is extremely low and your supply, everything you're doing for them, the gifts, the calls, the messages, all of those things are overabundant. And so the quickest way to change this dynamic, the quickest way to increase your value and increase the value of the relationship is to create an artificial shortage. You must decrease the supply, not only to match demand, but to actually go lower. And so it's interesting because right now your ex isn't doing anything, they're likely not calling you, they're distancing themselves. So you're probably thinking, well, what can I do to increase my value? You must stop everything that you have been doing for them. Everything you've been doing to show them that you care or you missed them or you love them, you must delete and remove all of those things immediately. This is how we create the shortage. Now, before we go any further, I do want to ask that if you enjoy the content and you like these kind of videos, that you go ahead and like the video right now. It does mean a lot and it does help the channel to get this content out to other people who need it. But also, it costs you nothing, so I really do appreciate it. Also make sure you subscribe to the channel so you don't miss any of the future videos that I upload to this channel about relationships and breakups. Now, let's continue. When you create this shortage by going no contact, by disappearing and giving your ex the time and space to come back to a point where they recognize that they took you for granted. And that they had something special in the first place, and they did not value it. The quickest way to do that is to go no contact immediately. And slowly but surely, we're going to walk your ex down the process of remembering your value. So here's what starts to happen. When you do this, your ex will become curious a lot of times, and then they start to give you breadcrumbs. But you have to remember, always think about yourself like a high-end designer like Dior or Gucci, right? Whatever those high-end designers are. Just because people want them does not mean that these people can afford them. Okay? It's easy. It's free to want something. So just because your ex starts to give you little breadcrumbs, and they start to watch your stories, maybe like some of your posts, that is them wanting you or or desiring your attention. Okay? But wanting something is free. It costs your ex nothing to want you or to want some attention from from you. And so you typically should not react to these types of things. We want them to match the value, okay, of you. We want them to match your actual value or the value that you want them to see you as moving forward. So how do they do this? They have to invest more. Okay? So if you want your ex to miss you badly, you must raise your price way above what it is now at the time they walked away, and probably even higher than it was at the beginning of the relationship. They must feel good about investing into you. And this doesn't mean that your ex has to pay for expensive dates and so on and so forth. But you know that your ex's level of investment has increased when they start to do more for you, as they should. Now if you think about it, the people that really want these high-end designers, they are willing to spend more money in that scenario to buy these things. They're willing to take on extra shifts at work so they can make enough to do it. Whatever it is that people value, they're willing to go above and beyond to bring these people or experiences into their life. And you must convey the same thing to your ex. Always think about yourself in a very simplistic term, okay? Think about yourself as a product, a high-end designer or luxury product. This is why breadcrumbs are just not going to cut it. If your ex thinks that they can get you back by simply watching your stories, and you're going to go back to chasing them, make sure that they recognize that they are making a mistake. That is not going to happen. Now I promise you, even though today they might be telling you all the, oh, I don't see a future, I don't want to be with you. Even though they're saying those things right now, the more they invest in you, the more they feel like, well, the only reason I am doing all these things has to be because I love her or I love him. That's the only reason human beings tend to invest more and more and more. So always think about that. Just because your ex starts giving you breadcrumbs or doing simple things to get your attention, they have not yet invested enough to get you back. They haven't yet invested enough to get your attention. You are high-end and they must work for it. This is when they actually now start to think about you when they're alone. When they realize, like, why is it so hard to get their attention? Why is it so hard to make her want me again? They have to always feel like this is their idea. They're the ones fighting for the relationship, not you. And that's when the tables turn and your ex starts to do more to actually fix the relationship. Anyway, if you enjoyed this type of content, make sure you subscribe to the channel right now. And if you haven't already, hit the like button, okay? Because it really does help the channel and it gets this video out to other people that need it. So thank you so much. I appreciate it. And I will catch you in the next video. Peace.
