[0:01]Welcome to another episode of Soul With The Love where we explore that love is safe and it's that's not safe, it's not love. Today, I have beautiful Danna, Danna Geroux, French name. And we just had Valentine's and I see three types of patterns that happen with Valentine's. It's stressful for many people, if you're single, you feel, oh, am I a loser, alone again. Or you're in a relationship but it doesn't live up to the hallmark movies. Or you're actually happy in your relationship and now you're trying to make it even better and make it more special. So, uh, what do you think? What what's your what's your words of wisdom on that one? Well, I think, well, I know that if you believe something's going to suck, then it's going to suck. But if you believe that something could be beautiful or amazing, then it can be beautiful and amazing. It's just the dialogue that you give to it. Yeah, like I was I was speaking to a client of mine and uh, he's a musician, a pretty well known musician, he's amazing guy. And I was giving him the analogy, like, what happens if you sit there and you don't believe you can write a song? Will you be able to write a song? And it was like, you know, as a writer, he's like, if you don't have any, if you don't believe, it definitely can happen, but it's the same thing with love. If you have a tape that love sucks and it's going to be miserable. I see the same thing around Christmas time also when people like, you know, family or Thanksgiving in the US and like there's what the world says it should be, what you're experiencing, and if you're not matching what the expectations are out there, Then it's so easy to decrease your self-worth and think, what's wrong with me, it's not matching this cultural hallmark moment and that's that's we get stuck with that. Like, what do you do on Valentine's Day? So, I may be a little unique when it comes to Valentine's Day, but in my past marriage and in this relationship now, I actually don't focus on Valentine's Day. Yeah, it's nice. It's it's nice to express your love more for someone that day, but I really truly believe that to have a a powerful, uplifting, empowering relationship, you express love on a regular basis. And you do things to lift each other up so that you can be the most uplifted best versions of yourselves and love is about growing with each other and making each other feel safe and loved. And I don't believe it should be focused on one day. I think it should be all year round, every day and getting to know your partner, so you know their likes, their dislikes and showing that love consistently. I'm with you. Dell and I we are, um, quite happy in love. And I remember before, so I manifested him. I think for that I take credit for that. I actually found a letter that I had written about who my husband was going to be and I showed it to to Dale um, like maybe a month ago and I was like, look what I found like and everything I had written there, uh, is what we have. And one of the things I had and in manifesting him is like, I go to bed saying very grateful for each other. And that is one thing that we have and so you're right. I don't feel like I'm and I'm going like, ah, maybe I should be more romantic, but it's not romantic. I I think it's more romantic to be grateful for each other every day and bringing the best and feeling safe within our relationship. So, without knowing exactly what you were going to say, like, I'm not surprised where, you know, because we've gone on the similar journey that having a relationship where you're grateful each day does not need, you know, one day to sanctify it and that if the day, you know, doesn't match what everybody else is doing out there, Doesn't mean that you're not in love, doesn't mean you don't have a great relationship, actually, might mean that you have a better relationship because you don't need that. And uh, you missed the craziness of going to the restaurant with 10,000 other people trying to make reservations. So, um, I'd like to hear what is your take. Are you in or out of Valentine's Day. We should do a poll and that would be very interesting, like, what do you think of Valentine's Day? Anything else you'd like to say before we go? I uh, you said something about manifesting and there was something that you, I don't know if you remember when we worked together, There was something you had me do, because of me picking, you know, these the same face, same person, different face, um, but I was picking a partner on a on an energetic level, on a physical level, and you used to get me to close my eyes and picture the energy of the person. So, close your eyes, who is this being, who is this soul that you're destined to be with? What does it feel like to be with them, pretend you're holding their hand, and when I did the subconscious work with you, getting through the patterns, working through the patterns, understanding the traumas, and then I incorporated this visualization practice, the feeling into the feeling of being with that that being,
[6:21]He literally just came to me.
[6:25]is the same thing, the same thing with my husband. So, yes, I do remember the exercise, because I think it's a great exercise, it's so, if you're listening to this and you want to attract it or even if you're in a relationship right now and you want to transform it, like close your eyes and feel what it feels like when you feel the love from your heart going into, let's say your left hand, into his hand or her hand, into their heart and back then from their heart, into their hand to your hand, into your heart and feel that energy, an energetic movement of love coming in and out, because it creates that sense of safety and it creates an energy. You were sharing before how you did a silent retreat and when you came out of the silent retreat, you said, like, you shifted, because when we shift our energy from the inside like this, like it does have a frequency that then can attract to us, uh, who we would love to be safe and feeling loved and connected to. So, this is it for our episode of Soul With The Love where we explore that love is safe and if it's not safe, it's not love. If you're interested in finding out, are you really open to love? We have a special little quiz, it's a two-minute quiz that will tell you a special report. Are you emotionally available, is your partner, or the partners you've been with, uh, emotionally available, it takes two minutes, so just click on the link and download it and you'll get your answer. And uh, if you find this interesting, if you love it, please follow us and uh, share with other people who can benefit from this. Bye for now.
[8:10]It was good. Good. How long was it? It was eight minutes.
