Why Is Ignoring So Powerful? | Festinger’s Law Explained. #StudyHacker #shorts #psychology

[0:00]Har tabahi kisi bahari dushman se nahi hoti, kabhi-kabhi insaan apni hi zid se khud ko khatam kar leta hai. Lagbhag 300 kilo ka ek vishal kala bhalu mar gaya. Na uske sharir pe koi goli ka nishan tha, na hi woh kisi jaal mein fasa tha. Uski khopdi usne khud hi tod li thi. Is traasdi ki shuruat sirf ek hawa mein latakti hui lakdi se hui. Bhalu shehad khana chahta tha, lekin woh lakdi uske raaste mein badha ban rahi thi. Usne use halke se ek taraf dhakela. Dharam! Gurutvakarshan ke karan lakdi wapas aakar seedhe uski naak se takrai. Dard ne pal bhar mein uske dimag par kabza kar liya. Bhalu gusse se dahada aur us lakdi ko apna sabse bada dushman maan liya. Usne puri takat se us par war kiya. Lekin jitni jyada takat, utni hi jyada tezi se lakdi wapas lauti. Is bar uski naak ki haddi toot gai. Khoon ki gandh ne use piche hatne ke bajaye aur adhik pagal bana diya. Woh piche hata, dahada aur apni puri takat ke sath udkar aati lakdi se takra gaya. Woh jeetna chahta tha, lekin bhautiki ke niyamon ne uske liye sirf ek hi anjam tay kar rakha tha. Dhadam! Uski khopdi dhas gai. Mastishk aur lakdi ke tukde zameen par bikhar gaye. Aakhri saans tak uski aankhen usi lakdi ko ghoorti rahi. Us nirjeev vastu ko jisne uski jaan le li. Ab zara apne jeevan ki aur dekhiye. Subah ke traffic mein achanak lane badalne wali woh gadi wahi lakdi hai. Usne aapka sirf teen second ka samay liya, lekin aap 30 minute tak uska picha karte hain, use rokne ki koshish karte hain aur gusse mein bahas karte hain. Aapko lagta hai ki aap badla le rahe hain, lekin vastav mein aap apne hi sharir ko nuksan pahuncha rahe hote hain. Aapka raktchap badhta hai, rakt vahikaye sikudti hain aur aapka swasthya daanv par lag jata hai. Isi tarah social media par bahas karne wala woh ajnabi bhi wahi lakdi hai. Woh ek tippani likhkar so jata hai, lekin aap raat ke 3:00 baje tak chamakti screen ko dekhte hue hazaron shabd type karte hain aur phir unhe mita dete hain. Gusse se aapke haath pair thande pad jate hain. Aap sochte hain ki aap use jawab de rahe hain, lekin sach to yeh hai ki aap zehar pi rahe hote hain aur ummeed karte hain ki dusra vyakti mar jaye. Psychology mein ise Festinger ka niyam kaha jata hai. Vyask jeevan ke anubhav mein ise ek hi shabd mein samjhaya ja sakta hai, jane dena. Jeevan ki 90% traasdiyan un 10% samasyao par hamari anavashyak aur akramak pratikriya ke karan hoti hain. Sabse uchch star ka badla wapas prahar karna nahi, balki andekha karna hai. Bas ek kadam kinare hat jahiye. Aur aap payenge ki jis shehad ki aap talash kar rahe the, woh hamesha se aapke piche hi tha.