Testing someone is NOT the same as speaking to them #jayshetty #estherperel #shorts

[0:00]I spoke to so and so means I texted them. No, I didn't speak. I didn't hear the voice. If you don't hear the voice, you're missing out on the entire oxytocin attachment hormone that gets produced while you're hearing the voice. The voice is the first thing you hear when you are in utero. So you say you spoke, but you didn't. You connected, you had contact. And at every level you see an atrophy of the social skills, which creates a real sense of bracing myself, I'm going out to date. On Zoom or on any screen, we think we're looking at the other, but we actually are not making eye contact. This That's so true. pseudo experience as if I am looking at you and you're looking at me, but in fact, we don't means that neurologically none of this is actually happening.